Doobie Doo
Veteran
Yep, been there done that
Have you ever been the first man to treat a woman right in a relationship?
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Joe Budden
Banned
Only a simp would be where he isn’t appreciated
Ineedmoney504
SOHH ICEY...WE EATIN
In it now. With kids mom. I bout to break up
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Yeah if she was treated bad in every single relationship she was in, you’re fighting a losing battle.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Women are ungrateful so no.
JuvenileHell
Veteran
Treat women right brehs
UncleTomFord15
Veteran
Certain demographics of women don't appreciate "the right man" as well as other demographics 
. Thats all Im going to say..
. Thats all Im going to say..
Why is it a losing battle?
Nah, the fact that they hinted I was different and wanted to peruse a relationship automatically disqualified them. It’s not my job to rebuild people after they made a bunch of terrible decisions. 
Yup and it didn't work
Hathaway
Someday, We'll All Be Free
It's not always bad. Before marrying my wife, she had been in multiple bad relationships with those thuggish types. She even gave up and dated a mexican and a white guy. When I met her, she was riding solo and I was the complete opposite of what she was used to. College education, career oriented, church going (at the time) and a gentlemen. I knew how to treat a lady of her caliber. She been my ride or die since day 1.
It's not always bad. But some women do carry the hurt and baggage from failed relationships and it can be hard getting passed that barrier to her more vulnerable sides. But anything worth having, won't be easy.
It's not always bad. But some women do carry the hurt and baggage from failed relationships and it can be hard getting passed that barrier to her more vulnerable sides. But anything worth having, won't be easy.
Elim Garak
Veteran
Yes and just so you know she will cheat because she's used to the drama and won't be able to handle stability.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
From what I’ve seen dealing with friends and coworkers that go from bad relationship to bad relationship;
1. Always a victim, never want to admit their part in their own suffering (choosing the same type of guy over and over, repeatedly going back to the same guy expecting something different etc)
2. Projecting, assuming all guys are the same/act like their exes. Trying to find matching behavior patterns with the new guy and your old ones to confirm your beliefs.
3. Addiction to drama/stress; after so many years of having drama filled relationships you can become addicted to the feeling like with drugs and someone treating you right isn’t going make it go away, you’ll just attempt to cause problems in that relationship.
You’ll be dealing with all this and the average person will have a difficult time unpacking all that relationship trauma and trying to override it with goodness.
Of course this doesn’t apply to all.