"He said he rather her cheated than told him that"

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7 playing house without being married? You want a commitment make one :yeshrug:
Marriage isn't the commitment. I know plenty modern families where the parents are not married and have raised kids to adults and been together the whole time.

Times changed. Her having a ring wouldn't have stopped the interest btw 🤣
 

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This is what happens when you allow your woman to go into the workplace. You allow her to be in the company of bitter unruly hellhounds. Who probably are cheering her on to cheat on you. You allow her to be in the company of men who we all know dirty mack and put things in womens heads. Not to mention you have her working for another mans agenda daily. I mean seriously,that aint your woman,yall on that Will and Jada open marriage time. Where everyone has access to your woman.
Type of post you would expect from someone who uses intimidation to get sex. What year you think this is? :skip:

Go live in one of those countries where they are killing women for showing hair. You don't belong here.
 

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No one owes you a fair one or their truth
I disagree.

These one liners make me sick, no lie. Twitter has b*stardised the way we think that value of words is determined by how pretty they sound phonetically, not by their substance.

If people have been in a relationship for 7 years and that relationship was good, a basic amount of respect is owed. If you respect someone, then you are honest with them.
 

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You can't control whether a woman cheats on you or not. Cheating is a personal decision the cheater makes, and it really has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. So even telling guys what to do to avoid it happening to them is essentially blaming them when it happens, when in fact the only reason why the woman cheated is because of her bad character.

*edit: The same goes for men too. In the end, it is never the victim's fault that they got cheated on.
Preach. Commitment stems from character.
 

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Type of post you would expect from someone who uses intimidation to get sex. What year you think this is? :skip:

Go live in one of those countries where they are killing women for showing hair. You don't belong here.


Didnt you say you get bikini waxes on the regular:mjlol:? Men like you are the norm in this country now. Damn right I dont belong here.


Clearly we come from two different environments. I can now understand your misunderstanding:respect:.
 

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You gotta watch these work 'relationships'

Things can get very intimate and personal very quickly. Not sexually, but two people whose relationships are not going well start chatting and commiserating and that starts to grow a fake bond that makes it feel like it's 'real'.

But that intensity is an illusion that chick is going to find that out sooner rather than later.

But at least she let him know. Better than outright cheating. Or so she says.

:francis:
 

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I would always choose honesty over nursing my ego. I would thank her for being upfront about it and go take my L in peace. Nothing is ever worse than your partner doing you dirty behind your back, but I have no doubt that she was already cheating.
 

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You can't control whether a woman cheats on you or not. Cheating is a personal decision the cheater makes, and it really has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. So even telling guys what to do to avoid it happening to them is essentially blaming them when it happens, when in fact the only reason why the woman cheated is because of her bad character.

*edit: The same goes for men too. In the end, it is never the victim's fault that they got cheated on.

Yep....:francis: it doesnt even matter....
Short term or long term?
 

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All that twitter thread tells me is the energy isn't the same when it's reversed, which is consistent.

If a dude came home and told his girl of seven years that he's genuinely intrigued by another woman at the job and they're breaking up before he cheats so he can see if it's real..... and then said "thanks for seven years of love, bye" they're not gonna be s9 cavalier and nonchalant about the fallout.

"Girl, the body parts I'd be storing"
"Bytch, everyone gotta die"
"He can leave....in spirit cuz he's dead on the doorstep"

Dude's entitled to his heartbreak
People are immature and biased towards their gender in 85% of relationship discussions

It's the same thing in cheating threads, paternity fraud threads, abuse threads, etc. people identifying with their gender even if they do something abhorrent. People don't want to be objective.
 
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