Help Me Out, Am I Being Shallow?

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Let me start off by keeping it 100. I aint sh*t but an average a*s n*gga with a good job, goals, good personality and can dress my a*s off. I do aight in the game but I aint sh*t & I'm cool with it.

With that being said, the last thing that I wanna do is to come off as shallow but at the same time, I'm a man & we are physical creatures - we're attracted to what we're attracted to :yeshrug:.

I have a friend who's sweet as sugar, dependable, own place, great job and thicker than frozen peanut butter.
The only set back is she wears too much make up (f*cked up skin) & has hard/strong features (think Serena in the face). I smashed a couple of times and the box was :banderas:. We've had one run in when she found out I was dating another chick she had beef with & didn't tell her. And breh she got a petty/angry side that would make Robin Givens blush! SHE HIT MY REP HARD! Which is another red flag. I gotta have a youngin that can keep things to herself, you know?

She's quick to tell me where I messed up at and gives great advice but, again the only drawback is I'm not attracted to the face. She's draggin a wagon but I know if she ever ejects a kid her shape is gonna be a wrap!

Should I risk ending a friendship & jump in knowing that I'm not attracted to her?
 

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If you're not attracted to her face you should let someone who is cuff her. Just say you're not trying to be serious with anyone at the moment and try to keep a fukk buddy situation going. It's going to fall apart eventually, but if she's really your friend you shouldn't want to have her waste time with you when there's someone out there who would be heads over heels for baby girl.
 

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If you're not attracted to her face you should let someone who is cuff her. Just say you're not trying to be serious with anyone at the moment and try to keep a fukk buddy situation going. It's going to fall apart eventually, but if she's really your friend you shouldn't want to have her waste time with you when there's someone out there who would be heads over heels for baby girl.

I've made it clear that I'll be her friend for life! She's just good peoples. We both know we have free reign to roam but it just be those HH nights or catching a gallery opening and we are having a great time and it hits me, maybe I should give her a try and get serious :jbhmm:. You know what I'm saying?
 

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No, because the minute she makes you mad you're going to think she's even uglier. Don't ask me how I know this through and through :francis:.

You can dress, eh? Describe your style please. I adore men who can 'drobe it out :takedat:.
 
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I. You know what I'm saying?

No. I'm a face man and I couldn't imagine taking a woman seriously if I didn't find her pretty. Also, I've had plenty of fukk buddies in the past that I loved having as a friend and planned on it being a long lasting thing but somehow, someway things always fell apart. Maybe your situation will be different though.
 
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No, because the minute she makes you mad you're going to think she's even uglier. Don't ask me how I know this through and through :francis:.

You can dress, eh? Describe your style please. I adore men who can 'drobe it out :takedat:.

Oh yeah? :steviej:

I like to dress classic and more focused on how my clothes fit and low key flexing with the classics.
Stay away from logos & focus on quality.
 

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Oh yeah? :steviej:

I like to dress classic and more focused on how my clothes fit and low key flexing with the classics.
Stay away from logos & focus on quality.

Oh, yeah :yes:. That includes underwear too...can't be sharp on the outside and raggedy underneath :yayo:.
 
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