Her best friend is a guy...hrmph..Deuces Bih

[Black White Sox Hat]

Aint nobody got time for that retarded ass shyt..that's an even bigger deal breaker than cigarettes..she might as well have packed a pack of cigarettes at the table and lit a marlboro red over dinner on the 1st date.I aint even gonna waste your time from here on..











I'll probably still fukk her into a coma then ghost her ass though

 

[B86]

I’m sorry, but there is no such thing as a male/female friendship without at least one person having feelings or an ulterior motive

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I’m sorry, but there is no such thing as a male/female friendship without at least one person having feelings or an ulterior motive

This 100%.

It can happen with coworkers or if one person is straight and the other gay. Otherwise...usually the dude is hovering around the broad, hoping she'll see that he's a good dude and one day let him fukk and fall in love. Brehs don't do this too much but crehs will hang on a female "friend" for years.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Yeah, don't play those dumb ass games. You ever wonder, all these females with male best friends, but you rarely hear that shyt from men, I have a female best friend, or, most of my friends are girls. Not a chance in hell.

 

[Silkk]

This 100%.

It can happen with coworkers or if one person is straight and the other gay. Otherwise...usually the dude is hovering around the broad, hoping she'll see that he's a good dude and one day let him fukk and fall in love. Brehs don't do this too much but crehs will hang on a female "friend" for years.

Nah, I remember this fruity ass nikka used to talk about how he fukked his homegirls when I worked at a call center

 

[TRUEST]

Outside of her blood relatives, I am the only male figure in her world. Any attempt to challenge this position will be a regrettable mistake.

 

[Commish]

I it like this...

I don't trip off of who my lady is friends with because it always come down to how she feel about me.

If she respect me as well as the relationship, then she isn't going to cross boundaries.

Also, a person can cheat with anyone, anywhere @ anytime, so it goes back to my initial point.

If a woman is finding reasons why she can't spend time with a man, then that should raise concerns. IMO, a woman who is in a relationship should prioritize her time with her significant other. Of course there are other priorities such as work, kids(if applicable), family, rest, chores, friends, etc.

However, her significant other should pretty much take up a good portion of her free time.

Lastly, where I side with OP is if a woman is always talking about her male best friend and she is spending alone time with dude, then that would be a potential deal breaker.

Other than that, I don't trip off of who my lady is friends with, especially considering that women my age are pretty much grounded in their lives and either is into her family, relationship, work and/or all of the above.

Friends pretty much take a back seat to the aforementioned....

 

[Manolo]

He's probably a simp she's using for attention but trust and believe he will openly hate you or any nikka who bags her

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

If she has a male "best friend" then me and her can fukk but we can't have anything serious. I've tried to give chicks the benefit of the doubt but it never works out. She's either fukked him or wants to fukk him.

I’m sorry, but there is no such thing as a male/female friendship without at least one person having feelings or an ulterior motive

I used to not believe this because I'm not the simping type who befriends women just in hopes of fukking. I have no difficulty being strictly platonic friends with a woman. But when I broke up with my now ex, we had a lot of friends in common, and our mutual female friends were hitting my DM's and wanting to fukk on some discreet type shyt so my ex (their friend) don't get mad.

I been fukking the shyt out of em since the break up but I was surprised

 

[Positive Poster]

Daddy issues and craves male attention. Unfortunately the wrong type of attention.

All the friends are either exes or dudes trying to smash. She feels in control of the situation and that nothing will ever happen (again) so tells you they’re just friends. Deep down though she’s entertaining them and keeping them around for a reason She likely uses them for a lot of favors too.

She could theoretically get rid of of him/them if you two get serious and has no reason to now; but you can judge that yourself

Run!