Honest question(for both genders)

[Biscayne]

What do you love most about black love?

For those who are married or in a relationship with a black woman or black man, does it feel good to have someone of your race understand your daily struggle?

Could you or have you dated someone of another race?

How does it feel to just be able to come home and to just be able to unwind with someone you legitimately love and who legitimately loves you back? What are the holidays like?

 

[boriquaking]

What about the trannies?

 

[Biscayne]

What about the trannies?

Yeah, they can answer too.

 

[number21]

What about the trannies?

But yeah I'm indifferent about the idea of "Black love".

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I’ve been married for too damn long and it’s times I fell out of love with her but at least I’ve never had a bland dinner in my adult life

 

[Umoja]

Empathy. A second family that is relatable.

 

[Biscayne]

I’ve been married for too damn long and it’s times I fell out of love with her but at least I’ve never had a bland dinner in my adult life

Fell out of love?

 

[Sterling Archer]

The understanding of the our everyday struggles as black people and the consideration that comes with it. The knowing of what dangers exist for us and the support we give each other without having to even explain whats needed and why. Plus the feeling of seeing others inour community wanting to see you succeed just because youre a black couple.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Fell out of love?

Been married 15 years, separated a couple of times but we still are trying to work through things

 

[I AM WE ARE]

Ups and downs. Someone that understands you and willing to compromise. Ain't nothing like that ol school love though.

 

[I AM WE ARE]

What about the trannies?

 

[Coco Loco]

I love that I can say something inherently black about anything and I don’t have to explain myself. Jokes, movie references, upbringing etc. I love that we both know the black struggle. We are different genders but we understand it’s hard out here for both of us

For me there’s nothing better than black men. I’ve only dated black men

 

[Doobie Doo]

What about the trannies?

People like your mom?

 

[I AM WE ARE]

I love that I can say something inherently black about anything and I don’t have to explain myself. Jokes, movie references, upbringing etc. I love that we both know the black struggle. We are different genders but we understand it’s hard out here for both of us

For me there’s nothing better than black men. I’ve only dated black men

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Being black in and of itself isn't important if our values don't match.

Random hood breh + upper middle class Martha's Vineyard brehette??? They both go to Howard, get degrees and strong careers but their life experiences are night and day. The bonus of shared blackness can be negated by being unevenly yoked in other ways.

Black love is beautiful but you need to be well matched in other ways.