Hot summer dilemma, Need advice Coli brehs....

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Hhhh where do I start.....:francis:

See i have been on my family man shyt, but the devil came to my doorstep about a month or 2 back, new chick that live right right next door comes to my doorstep and ask to use my phone she pretty my old lady was home so I couldn't pimp it too much, but from i when i first locked eyes i knew we would fukk, my weakness in the flesh a rachet chick with weed lips, anyway she's using my phone and shes talking about drugs and dumb girl shyt, and hey I keeps the loud but the old lady is home so I kept it cool didnt say shyt, and didnt press it...She gives me back my phone and her number is under the contact k.....

So fast forward to like 2 weeks back, my ole lady is on that u a single man foolishness and starting shyt for no reason...So I was like fukk everything i broke and texted the next door neighbor, and asked her if she wanted to burn some loud she said hell yeah, she runs over burns two and we are hitting it off and the conversation and chemistry is there...she says she gotta go home cuz she super high and dont know me like that, fast forward to like 1:00am that night, she comes over with 3 bytches seeing my ole lady car still gone, we all get wasted and they all trying to fukk something fierce, i find out these bytches are all strippers/streetwallkers dtf, putting mollies in their a$$holes n all, but the situation being right right next door made me pause, I went against my primal nature I declined to fukk three chicks all sitting on my bed in one night, i never felt like such a homo in my life.....I felt good doing a somewhat right thing, but things got harder after denying this chick the dikk, it caused her to catch feelings on some other nikkas dont treat me like this, shyt....

Last week my ole lady visits her mom giving me another free weekend, i decide to call the neighbor up we decide to go on the first official date, we do, we had a great time, but once again i didn't smash, her period saves me from a dumb decision...:manny:



We agreed to get up this past weekend both on some u get of your baby daddy and the babies, n u get rid of my baby momma and the babies....But we fukked up and got sloppy, her old man stole her phone and seen our text, he calls me threats me on if he see me around his child, blah blah blah....She obviously stood tall to a degree because that's right right next door, he would have knocked on the door if he knew me by now, he been over everyday since....But anyway since then it has been fight after fight next door, dude broke into her house and jumped through the window n all...

How do yall think I should progress, normally i would throw this chick in the bushes because it's too close of a distance and too much drama?:patrice:

I don't want to cheat on my ole lady but chump nikka got loud on the phone, and I also invested money into the p*ssy, even though I waver morally that I should smash, even though my actions are pretty one sided so far....What should I do here?:smugbiden:


Should I text,the number, her old man may still have her phone I haven't heard from her since?:lupe:


Or should I abandon the situation completely before my ole lady catches wind of anything; problem is I didn't smash yet so I still give some fukk how this situation plays out?:ohlawd:


Talk some sense into me brehs....:why:
 

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You cheated on your ole lady by sharing intimate thoughts with another woman... YOU CHEATED!
Thats bullshyt breh, conversation with other chicks is healthy it makes me :manny: when the ole lady comes with the drama after i work all day and pay the bills.....Cheating is sticking my dikk in another chick, i dodged that over and over here in this instance
 

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Thats bullshyt breh, conversation with other chicks is healthy it makes me :manny: when thevole lady comes with the drama after i work all day and pay the bills.....Cheating is sticking my dikk in another chick, i dodged that over and over


Cheating isn't relegated to only sex... you sought out another woman to have companionship with while your "ole lady" was gone instead of talking to the woman you're in a relationship with....


I listen to a lot of Voddie Baucham and from what he describes as cheating, he is more knowledgeable and intelligent than you are, you were definitely cheating.
 

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Cheating isn't relegated to only sex... you sought out another woman to have companionship with while your "ole lady" was gone instead of talking to the woman you're in a relationship with....


I listen to a lot of Voddie Baucham and from what he describes as cheating, he is more knowledgeable and intelligent than you are, you were definitely cheating.
Yup.

Put it like dis OP, how old would u feel if u found out ur ol lady was behavin the same way?
 

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Cheating isn't relegated to only sex... you sought out another woman to have companionship with while your "ole lady" was gone instead of talking to the woman you're in a relationship with....


I listen to a lot of Voddie Baucham and from what he describes as cheating, he is more knowledgeable and intelligent than you are, you were definitely cheating.
Emotional cheating is bullshyt, if you are strong enough to avoid dikking down another chick its healthy , sometimes its takes another chick to say hang in there, or you are wrong, especially if you not getting that emotional sustenance at home....besides females are flip floppity on that emotional cheating shyt bytches be all on fb adding and chatting with 30 nikkas, and but but but there
 

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Emotional cheating is bullshyt, if you are strong enough to avoid dikking down another chick its healthy , sometimes its takes another chick to say hang in there, or you are wrong, especially if you not getting that emotional sustenance at home....besides females are flip floppity on that emotional cheating shyt bytches be all on fb adding and chatting with 30 nikkas, and but but but there



You're too immature to be in a relationship..... I hope you two break up
 
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