How Aggressive Are You With Your Cold Approach? (UglyGang Not Welcome)

[ThrobbingHood]

Ok, ugly gang, you can read but you can’t contribute.

I recently broke up with my long term on/off girl. So I thought I’d see how rusty my cold approach was.

I was in my corporate suit, had a fresh fade, was feeling myself.

I thought I’d test the waters see how many numbers I could get these past few days. Any coffee place is usually my go to. Easy to be sociable whilst waiting in line.

Spoke to about five ladies, minimum 7/10s.

3 gave me their numbers with no issue. 1 said she had a man but still gave me her number (it’s complicated apparently.) The fifth one gave me her instagram.

I’m going out tonight. Gonna hit a few spots. I’m still a bit rusty but I think I should get some quality. I’m pretty direct with my approach. Just start a casual conversation. Never, ever mention how good they look. Crack a few jokes. Request (don’t ask) they put their number in my phone.

How aggressive are you with your cold approach?

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I don't cold approach. They come to me or give me signals.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Straight to the point if I’m in a hurry or gotta catch her

Try to be funny if we both going the same way

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Tis the season to be approaching.

Girls out in their skimpy outfits wanting to get holla'ed at.

Approached this fine loc head darkskinned chick outside a club i was in. Struck up a convo about her locs and asked for her insta (as i have them as well) but mama told me she had a man.

Tried approaching this (i think) hispanic broad on the train. As i was getting off i see her looking at me so i asked her what stop she getting off (was gonna stay on the train so i could get her number) but she smiled and walked off to take a seat

I can approach but i need to work on what to say to them/ice break the convo so it don't come across as awkward. I prefer the direct approach but sometimes you're in situations where you gotta have a general chit chat with them

Do you have a default conversation starter or saying you say to these girls

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Im on every chick i think looks good.

If i get at about 10 i can get 4 or 5.

Its a good thing to do.

Meeting online has less success rate

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

I don’t cold approach like that

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Tis the season to be approaching.

Girls out in their skimpy outfits wanting to get holla'ed at.

I love the summer time. These hos are scandalous with their skimpy outfits.

I just make direct eye contact. I never break my gaze. I crack a little smile and if she smiles back, I approach. If she looks uncomfortable or avoids looking at me, I simply fall back.

I don’t have time to be discerning between shy women and scared women. They fall under the same category.

Edit: for me there’s no default conversation. Just study her. If she’s reading, I comment on the Book. If she’s wearing clothes that are traditional to a certain culture, I talk about that. Pick up lines are corny. Every woman is different. Just point out what’s unique about her.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Straight forward with it but I do try to find an original contextual opener. Gotta be genuine tho.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Damn, it looks like I alienated most of thecoli with my disclaimer. Don’t take it personal ugly gang. I’m just not trying to give you false hope. I don’t want you catching a metoo charge because thread gassed you up.