How are these two any different?

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I dunno :yeshrug: I guess cause they didn't say it to her face. So it's more like cyberbullying.
Is that still not abuse? shouldn't this writer lose her job for what she has done to these females?
 

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:manny: these females need to keep it consistant. you're either against abuse or not.

Fixed.

Emotional/Verbal abuse is real tho.

It's different when it's a strangers opinion vs someone who you thought was supposed to love you. When you have that attachment their words carry extra weight. Abusers can use that as a weapon against you.

When you hear that you are worthless so many times, you don't even need the person to tell you anymore because it becomes ingrained in your mind and your thoughts repeat that message for them. It's kind of like brainwashing. It takes time. It's called training or grooming a person.
 

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yo I just clicked on that 2nd link you posted, someone tell me why in a list titled
"The Worst Celebrity Beach Bodies"
serena williams is listed...:stopitslime:

These bad bodied longbacked cac bytches always trying to hold everyone to the eurocentric standard.
The same cac bros and hoes be praising bytches like Kate Upton.

A steel toe boot has a more feminine shape than that oreck vacuum shaped smut.
 

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The sad part is a lot of people don't even understand they are doing it because its normal to them. It was how they grew up. Hurt people hurt people. It takes recognition, effort and mediation to break the cycle.
 

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Fixed.

Emotional/Verbal abuse is real tho.

It's different when it's a strangers opinion vs someone who you thought was supposed to love you. When you have that attachment their words carry extra weight. Abusers can use that as a weapon against you.

When you hear that you are worthless so many times, you don't even need they person to tell you anymore because it becomes ingrained in your mind and your thoughts repeat that message for them. It's kind of like brainwashing. It takes time. It's called training or grooming a person.
:snoop: thanks for the fix I need to take my ass back to school.. but in the end it really doesn't matter. abuse is abuse. People are losing their lively hood from this pick and choose outrage. Do you really think if Vick wrote an article like this dude would still be in a jersey Sunday?
 

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yo I just clicked on that 2nd link you posted, someone tell me why in a list titled
"The Worst Celebrity Beach Bodies"
serena williams is listed...:stopitslime:

These bad bodied longbacked cac bytches always trying to hold everyone to the eurocentric standard.
The same cac bros and hoes be praising bytches like Kate Upton.

A steel toe boot has a more feminine shape than that oreck vacuum shaped smut.
real shyt breh. that whole article was just ripping n to females self esteem. why is this okay? Nothing wrong with that Williams pic at all. This is why I don't take these #yesallwoman shyt seriously. It's only abuse when a man dose it. Could you imagine the up roar from feminist if some one like Shaq said this shyt on air clowning?
 
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