How Can I successfully maintain a side chick??

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Bout time for ya boy to get his "Hey rookie Welcome to the NFL moment" so help a young nikka just trying to make it out chea in these streets. I got a dilemma :to:

I live w/ my girl, not cuz we finna get married or anything, but more out of convenience. Long story but we live together. Everything fine and shyt a nikka not trying to dump her, but I met this other bytch that bad as fukk. Problem is I don't think she wanna be just a jumpoff. So I gotta actually "date" her a lil bit if I wanna get that good good.

Here are some basic questions I have:

- Does a side chick know she a side chick? or does she expect to be treated like a main chick? How do you know when to tell a jumpoff that she just a jumpoff?

- Obviously can't bring this bytch back to the crib. What excuse can I make for that without saying I live w/ my parents?

- What you tell your main chick when you out with the jumpoff?
 
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1.Stay Strapped(condoms)

2.make sure yo side chick has a man. That way y'all both have something to lose and you don't have to worry about her blowing yo phone being clingy and plus ysll both know what it is

3. Let shorty know wat it is up front. " we friends, we kick it, we do what we do, I enjoy spending time with you but that's as far as that goes.


4.don't tell her much about your girl as far as personal shyt becuz that could come back to bite you down the line.


Just some basic rules... Oh an dnt spend to much time together u don't wanna catch feelings
 
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Side chicks are on a need to know basis...
Don't give out any extra information...
Tell her from the start you got a girl, she can choose you or not choose you...
Do not discuss your girl with the side check beyond that...

Last but not least...
If you don't want to lose your girl don't do it...
Because your relationship will always be 48 hours away from ending if things go BAD...
Also your car, clothes, and other belongings could be destroyed...
 
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Forget that part about your side chick having a man...
That's terrible advice...
And increases the odds that your relationship with your girlfriend will be destroyed...

Plus that's going to take ALL the fun out of it...
You gotta juggle your girl, and try to communicate with a woman and get at a woman who has limited availability...

As someone who has done this for a few years in my early 20's...
The best side chick is a lonely woman the worst side chick is the "gimme some money" side chick...
You find you a woman who is PLAIN JANE and you GOOD...

Don't go out here searching for FLY SIDE CHICKS...
You ain't Mayweather...
 
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when this thread was made by a female the replies were a lot different. :mjlol: i don't want to see none of you shady ass nikkas saying women ain't shyt.

anyways, you're gonna get caught like most men op. why not just break up with your gf and date the other girl. it's gonna happen anyways. skip all the extra stuff.
 
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Sunshine said:
anyways, you're gonna get caught like most men op. why not just break up with your gf and date the other girl. it's gonna happen anyways. skip all the extra stuff.
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:what: Because he doesn't want to date the other girl. He just wants her to be his side chick.
 
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Sunshine said:
"So I gotta actually "date" her a lil bit if I wanna get that good good."

but i guess it makes more sense to just be a cheater. :rolleyes:
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Problem is I don't think she wanna be just a jumpoff
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He only wants to have sex with her. Hence why most responses in here advice him to not beat around the bush in around to be around the bush. Just keep it funky but hopefully not too funky :scusthov:
 
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