How can i tell my homeboy about himself?

[NeilCartwright]

Me and this guy from HS go to the college up here, we're friends. Anyway the issue is he comes off as selfish/spoiled/or whatever adjective you want to use His dad is a dentist (has his own office) and my friend has no shame in spending his dads money

I dont have a problem with his dad, its just my homeboy will talk about other people being broke,and basically flexes off of his dads moneymeanwhile most people in school work, or at least appreciate what they have.

We can be out with females and he'll be like "Damn when you gonna cop a new phone?" or "Hows that job at Burger King paying you?"Knowing he dont pay for anything himselfLike damn breh we all cant live off our parents. Some of us actually take pride in doing shyt for ourselves

Man how i bring this up to him? Dude is 20 and im 21. Ironically enough his parents slide him money but he cant dress and still hasnt lost his virginity yet

 

[J.E.T.S]

Me and this guy from HS go to the college up here, we're friends. Anyway the issue is he comes off as selfish/spoiled/or whatever adjective you want to use His dad is a dentist (has his own office) and my friend has no shame in spending his dads money

I dont have a problem with his dad, its just my homeboy will talk about other people being broke,and basically flexes off of his dads moneymeanwhile most people in school work, or at least appreciate what they have.

We can be out with females and he'll be like "Damn when you gonna cop a new phone?" or "Hows that job at Burger King paying you?"Knowing he dont pay for anything himselfLike damn breh we all cant live off our parents. Some of us actually take pride in doing shyt for ourselves

Man how i bring this up to him? Dude is 20 and im 21. Ironically enough his parents slide him money but he cant dress and still hasnt lost his virginity yet

Straight, no chaser.

However, You sound a lil jealous. That's a female trait.

 

[Freedman]

Call his hands out or put that iron on em

 

[The BasedFather]

Hit a lick

 

[Music Fiend]

Me and this guy from HS go to the college up here, we're friends. Anyway the issue is he comes off as selfish/spoiled/or whatever adjective you want to use His dad is a dentist (has his own office) and my friend has no shame in spending his dads money

I dont have a problem with his dad, its just my homeboy will talk about other people being broke,and basically flexes off of his dads moneymeanwhile most people in school work, or at least appreciate what they have.

We can be out with females and he'll be like "Damn when you gonna cop a new phone?" or "Hows that job at Burger King paying you?"Knowing he dont pay for anything himselfLike damn breh we all cant live off our parents. Some of us actually take pride in doing shyt for ourselves

Man how i bring this up to him? Dude is 20 and im 21. Ironically enough his parents slide him money but he cant dress and still hasnt lost his virginity yet

You don't. He'll be humbled when he realized how much of a disadvantage he's at because he's never had to fend for himself.

He's an insecure sack of shyt. Trust me, he's more aware of himself than you think. Best thing you can do for ppl like that is just distance yourself and let em know that you can't get with the way he acts. Leave it at that.

 

[Groanman]

 

[ExodusNirvana]

I had a friend like that and I cut him off about 3 years ago and it was one of the best decisions I've made in my entire life. I woke up one day, stepped outside to roast a little something and I stood there thinking "Why do I feel drained of energy being around this person?" and "Why does this person not get along with anyone else in my circle despite those other people being good, hardworking people?".

You know why? You have a toxic friend. Toxic friends are toxic. They bring nothing but negative energy and are toxic to almost every situation and person they are in and around.

Fall back a little bit and you'll see the toxicity that he exhibits will be pointed in YOUR direction next. Guranteed.

Beware of toxic friends man...they will do nothing but hold you back...

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

stop chilling with him.

 

[BrothaZay]

Set him up to get robbed just hope they don't kill him

 

[Krazy]

Set him up

Then remove the ski mask and be like this is why you dont stunt with daddys money.

Something like this

 

[The Oracle]

Can't you just talk to him like an adult and be direct?

"Hey breh, acting like you are better than other people because your family has money makes you come off like an insecure fakkit. Can you cut that shyt out?"

Problem. Solved.

And at all the posts saying to rob him, you are all scumbags. This is his friend, not an acquaintance, you sociopaths.

 

[All Knowledge]

If he direct that shyt at you, smack him up and go in his pockets and ask him how he get all 'your' money and say you're taking it back

Deebo'ed a few college nikkas in my day


bring that ass back to earth

 

[greenz]

M

Man how i bring this up to him? Dude is 20 and im 21. Ironically enough his parents slide him money but he cant dress and still hasnt lost his virginity yet

I got friends like this but they don't "flexx" their money and talk down about other people cuz thank god we couldn't be friends. But really just be honest with slim sit him down and be like "Yo you my mans and all but not everybody grew up like you alot people come from different walks of live different struggles and its ji embrassing when you talk down on other people that don't got what you got. Your gonna lose alot of friends if you keep actin like that me included"

How dis nikka ain't get no p*ssy yet tho .....

 

[L&HH]

Dude got paper and can't dress, a virgin, and has the nerve to talk down on people? Yeah, he's likely insecure, false bravado. He'll get his card pulled eventually if it ain't by you, it'll be someone else

 

[the cac mamba]

just call him out on not gettin any p*ssy

i mean if hes acting like that then

all that money n no girls huh