How come women keep the baby if the man doesnt want it?

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At the end of the day it's about personal responsibility and protecting yourself. If a man doesn't want a child he needs to wear a condom. Yes condoms do break but the majority of the time they don't. If your completely sure you don't want children then get a vasectomy. There are rare instances where men who have a vasectomy still somehow end up getting a woman pregnant but that's rare.

You want to fukk any woman that opens her legs for you then prepare to deal with the possible consequences like pregnancy and/or STDs/STIs. Is it a double standard for women and men? Yes it is. Is it fair? No but life isn't fair. :yeshrug:
 
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I agree with everything you said, as you can see throughout the thread

But like you said... That "that superior male rationality" is tryna understand & make sense of the logic behind the decision.

Like.... If I tell you to your face that I'm gonna be a dead-beat? Why would you wanna carry my child?

So youre saying basically, its like when men see a bad bytch & our dikks get hard......

I'm tryna break it down using logic, feel me?

Its gotta make more sense than that.....
If a chick is allowing a deadbeat to seed her, she probably damaged herself. Some dudes unknowingly make excuses for women thinking "if this chick would just be smarter..."

Nah it don't work that way. Just like there are some dudes who are just ain't shyt, there are a lot of women who are ain't shyt.
These types of females keep the baby b/c they have bass ackwards logic. They be seeing imaginary potential in dudes who actually low-key hate them. They think fukkking is a pathway to stability and are more than willing to be vindictive if that "genius" plan doesn't work out.

Now the other part to this is that some women have had life circumstances that make them primed for being taken advantage of. Being raped, degraded, not cherished, abused. Just like little Blk boys don't magically become drug dealers or pimps on their own, life takes these chicks thru gauntlets as well and softens them
up or makes them receptive to being used and dumped. They see children as a gift or a tie to a guy out of desperation. They actually believe the lies these dudes spin. They want a family and love so much that they will see it anywhere. Which is why I have more vitriol for people taking advantage of them especially if they in your own race b/c these dudes know how fukking used these chicks have been and just cool with kicking them while they are down.

Expecting broken people to make good decisions especially with something like reproduction is a recipe for disaster. That's why we need to teach both men and women to be responsible.

Men still want the archaic leeway they think they had back in the day to fukk anything and go to the store for a pack of cigarettes lol! I say think b/c even back then male promiscuity was regulated as well. A bunch of people's grandparents are together today b/c somebody literally held a gun to his head and forced him to get with the daughter he seeded up.

Society has evolved in such a way that both men and women desperately need to grow up and stop resenting the loss of social safety nets their perspective genders had in the past.
 
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If a chick is allowing a deadbeat to seed her, she probably damaged herself. Some dudes unknowingly make excuses for women thinking "if this chick would just be smarter..."

Nah it don't work that way. Just like there are some dudes who are just ain't shyt, there are a lot of women who are ain't shyt.
These types of females keep the baby b/c they have bass ackwards logic. They be seeing imaginary potential in dudes who actually low-key hate them. They think fukkking is a pathway to stability and are more than willing to be vindictive if that "genius" plan doesn't work out.

Now the other part to this is that some women have had life circumstances that make them primed for being taken advantage of. Being raped, degraded, not cherished, abused. Just like little Blk boys don't magically become drug dealers or pimps on their own, life takes these chicks thru gauntlets as well and softens them
up or makes them receptive to being used and dumped. They see children as a gift or a tie to a guy out of desperation. They actually believe the lies these dudes spin. They want a family and love so much that they will see it anywhere. Which is why I have more vitriol for people taking advantage of them especially if they in your own race b/c these dudes know how fukking used these chicks have been and just cool with kicking them while they are down.

Expecting broken people to make good decisions especially with something like reproduction is a recipe for disaster. That's why we need to teach both men and women to be responsible.

Men still want the archaic leeway they think they had back in the day to fukk anything and go to the store for a pack of cigarettes lol! I say think b/c even back then male promiscuity was regulated as well. A bunch of people's grandparents are together today b/c somebody literally held a gun to his head and forced him to get with the daughter he seeded up.

Society has evolved in such a way that both men and women desperately need to grow up and stop resenting the loss of social safety nets their perspective genders had in the past.
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@Lesfilles why do think women carry children for dead beats tho?


Like when the man says he doesnt want it..... Why do you think women carry it anyway, despite the fatherless situation?

Like who would want a dead beat? :mjlol:



Make sense of this breh

I honestly don't know. But what I'm saying is, there are women carrying around the child they had after being raped or sexually assaulted so there is obviously something there when it comes to being pregnant and saying 'just get an abortion' I think ignores some of those complexities; that's literally all I'm saying. Yeah, you'd think they'd be trying their damn hardest to not get pregnant by an ain't shyt dude but some of them go around having three and four kids by the same ain't shyt dude or have one with a low-life and another with his 'friend'. I honestly don't know but I think it has to be something because women have more to lose by having a baby.
 

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I'm in this situation right now

Worst thing is it's some mentally ill white crakkka smh. But it's not like I just nutted in her and didn't accept the consequences, on the night it happened I told her I forgot my condoms let's go buy some. She was like we don't need to. Then proceeded to buy hella alcohol to get me drunk. I also pulled out that night. She obviously wasn't using anything herself and now I supposedly got a kid (I say this because the lil jit looks nothing like me in not convinced personally sorry :yeshrug:)

Sorry not sorry, I ain't just gonna ruin my life like that for a fat white supremacist who trapped me for my seed. fukk that. I was already handed multiple bad cards in my hand (no father figure growing up, dad is a loser, mother lowkey also a loser. Only grew up with my mum and sister). Took me longer than others to learn certain shyt and now I'm finally getting close to sorting myself out I'm just supposed to show my belly and say yes massa lemme just fukk everything off and forget my future prospects because this white hoe trapped me :mjlol:

nikka fukk THAT I AINT NO DOCILE ASS c00n!

0 fukks given

She made her decision that night to trap a nikka, I'm making mine to say see ya. And again I'm not even convinced this lil fool is even mine anyway. Honestly I don't really feel much for him regardless s:yeshrug:

I ain't becoming another nikka in the system who didn't even get a chance to succeed fukk that.

Now if it was a black woman OR I willingly chose to cum inside or not use a condom? I'll look after both. The fact that I was trapped AND it's a crakkka? Hell nah

Damn. Any updates? Hope things worked out for you.
 

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i got a homeboy's dad that this happened to. he did the dash and then went out the way. all breh ever saw was his left arm in an old photograph and it was blurry. i had to stop giving him advice on forgiving his mom once i got the full picture. she did this little nikka like marilyn monroe mama.. so it is what it is.
 
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