How did we get tricked into being shamed into dating older women?

[TripleAgent]

If you 35 plus , better to date a 30 year old single childless women

Than Dating a 23 year old women

Finding a 30yo single childless woman that is desireable is needle in a haystack status over here.

I’d be lying if I didn’t say that the women you choose and where they are in life in any given point also reflects what type of man you are, too. Like someone said before.. If you creeping up to 40 (which means you’re 35+) chasing after 21-24 years old more than likely you
1. Are carnal and let your impulses/sexual appetite overrule you.
2. Lack of discipline and more than likely avoid accountability
3. Suffer from a bit a narcissism have a manipulative streak
4. Impatient and self-centered

All childish and immature traits thats usually associated with men and women from that age range.. basically you’re a seasoned hen behaving like a spring chicken.

The sweet spot is 1-3 years

In any event it really doesn’t matter and nobody really cares. Do you, brudda! More than likely you’re just beginning to stare your mortality in the face and yearn to experience your glory years.

Or 5. You don't like old broads...nikkas make shyt too complicated.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

I’m in my 30s…and women close to my age, are unpleasant.

They’ve been through so much shyt. More than any man. Cheated. Married. Divorced. Ran through.

So why in the fukk would I feel any type of way, going for no older than 25?

You even have men now, shaming other men for going for younger women.

What is the appeal of a woman in her 30s, a younger, less worn model cannot provide??

If folks aint "shaming" u for dating younger women, they are shaming u for dating older women.

A lot of folks are just haters, and if they dont like u, or jealous of u, or just having a bad day they will find a way to shyt on u. Misery loves company. Just do u as long as u aint hurting no one. If u dont like the energy people are bringing within ur personal space, its ultimately up to u whether u choose to tolerate them. Simply cut them out ur life and peace will instantly follow.

 

[Guile]

I turned 30 and 19 and 20 year olds are still checking for me.


Older women are super choosy and just don't even want to have a fun conversation seemingly.

 

[Killigraphy]

Idk , maybe its upbringing? but I was always told to date younger. Grandma's were always younger than Grandpa's. Memes (Beyonce and Jay), jokes from standups, tv, etc....if anything we were told by the world and media, to date younger...and that old broads will teach you some things (The Graduate) but you're always gonna have something young around.

 

[WaveGang]

I'm 33 and still get chicks in their early 20s. I wont date a woman over the age of 30.

Handsome gang lifestyle

 

[Bmezy]

Finding a 30yo single childless woman that is desireable is needle in a haystack status over here.

Or 5. You don't like old broads...nikkas make shyt too complicated.

..if the shoe don’t fit then I ain talking you.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Please tell me where I can find these women that make home cook meals from scratch daily and come home and wash their man's dirty draws. Because when I was 10 years old my mother, who was a housewife and married for 45 years, told me not to marry these broads because they're lazy, entitled, and wouldn't do any of the things for me that she did naturally for my dad.

Grocery store. You gotta be nosey tho. Look in the basket and see what she got. If she got kids or frozen foods don't fukk with them. If she has single packs of meat and cans talk to her.

Ask her to help u figure out how to cook something. If she help you that means she can cook and she probably don't have a man bc she's taking time to help. After she help you get her number and go from there.

 

[KidJSoul]

Mostly people online

Also, dudes who tried to be empathic towards women's beauty standards, but let it get to far to a point where they got tricked

 

[KidJSoul]

There are women who been ran through by the time they're 25. There are women who were single mothers at 19. We see them all the time posted here. Women who are 24 complaining about not being able to find good men. We see GMB stories about men in their 30s and 40s getting cheated on or taken to the cleaners by girlfriends and wives who are 5-10 years younger who wanna live that hot girl summer on his dime.

If youre convinced youre right about your assumption that a single woman in her 30s is not worth it, nothing I or anyone else will say will make you think otherwise. Life hits people differently. There's women who committed to a nikka in her 20s and dude split up with her at 31. Theres women who are widows. Theres women who just like men, haven't met anyone who shares their value and interests until they hit an older age.

Theres nothing wrong with dating younger women, but when you're going out of your way to date them on an assumption that can be false and is proven false every day on this board when nikkas post bitter, angry, entitled and toxic women who haven't even seen 30 yet, thats your choice and you have a right to live as you please. Do you dawg.

I'm saying if you move in the right circles you'll find the women who are worth it and their age won't be a determining factor in your choice.

Wow, well said.

You post a lot of good shyt breh