how did you cope with losing family? :mjcry:

[no.]

All my life I've been fortunate enough to not have had a death in my family, except like cousins twice removed.
But... my grandmas getting , brehs. They're both like 70. One of them got diagnosed with diabetes The other one is in the hospital and she gonna need heart surgery, brehs! I don't know how to deal with this, brehs. It's some sad shyt and it ain't even happen yet

I don't know if I can ever be ready for goodbye... I mean, is anyone ever? Coli brehs who've lost someone, how did you get closure?

 

[Dwolf]

edit - I read the title as how would you cope.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Nvr did l and probably never will, life is fukkd up so u gotta just take it a day at a time. Some heal faster than others, sum never heal at all.

 

[Smoke]

I go about in a weird way....it's like when it's actually happening it doesn't bother me. It's not until weeks, months later when I happen to think about that person and realize they're really gone. That's when it really hits me the hardest. I've also been fortunate enough to not lose many people, I lost my grandfather last year to a long bout with Cancer, but he had been sick for almost a year and everyone knew the time was coming. Strangely enough tho, it seems like he held on so he could see the family one last time. We all packed into that little hospital room, chatting it up, and then later on that same night is when he passed.

 

[Fellatio]

I gained 120 lbs.
My advice is to learn about death. There must be youtube videos dvds and books that you can view

Its alot like being cheated on. In some ways its not but with repitition you grow

 

[mannyrs13]

Nobodies ever ready. It's tough losing a family member. Just gotta remember the good times and dead any beef beforehand cuz you never know when you might not see somebody again.

 

[Raava]

I lost 2 grandparents when I was younger, and a cousin more recently. The cousin was the hardest because it was so unexpected, and I sometimes still get upset thinking about it. I think it was also harder as an adult. You realize more and have more of an understanding of death. I had way more to think about. He had a young family and now they are without a him. I will lose my grandmother soon, even though she is already mentally gone. I have already mourned for her but I will have to deal with a lot of anger towards my extended family.

All I did was try to help handle the business with my cousin and just move on even through the sadness as I do with anything. Regardless of my emotions or whatever I always had to keep moving, things need to be taken care of. I just get through it. I let whatever I need to out, but I don't stop.

 

[JAY?]

Not that it's easier, but they lived their lives
They are fortunate to have reached their age
You're fortunate to be able to see the end and enjoy the last days

I had my right hand man, my cousin, my sons godfather pass away unexpectedly
He was gettin ready to come over and never did
27 and died of a heart attack

 

[Blackout]

Try to remember the good times they had in life.

All you can do is remember them and continue chasing happiness.

 

[JAY?]

I lost 2 grandparents when I was younger, and a cousin more recently. The cousin was the hardest because it was so unexpected, and I sometimes still get upset thinking about it sometimes. I think it was also harder as an adult. You realize more and have more of an understanding of death. I had way more to think about. He had a young family and now they are without a him. I will lose my grandmother soon, even though she is already mentally gone. I have already mourned for her but I will have to deal with a lot of anger towards my extended family.

All I did was try to help handle the business with my cousin and just move on even through the sadness as I do with anything. Regardless of my emotions or whatever I always had to keep moving, things need to be taken care of. I just get through it. I let whatever I need to out, but I don't stop.

The hardest part is when there's a gathering, some type of party, a boxing match, anything, and the door opens and for a split second u think it's them.

 

[Elle Driver]

I don't think you ever stop coping or feeling that loss, but you just gotta keep living life.

 

[RealAssanova]

Immediate family will be extremely hard to cope with...ESPECIALLY MY PARENTS.

mommy daddy

but i kno i'mma die too when and i kno my time will come when i'll be reunited with em so i kinda take solace from that.

 

[JAY?]

Immediate family will be extremely hard to cope with...ESPECIALLY MY PARENTS.

mommy daddy

but i kno i'mma die too when and i kno my time will come when i'll be reunited with em so i kinda take solace from that.

Ain't no reuniting, u just tell urself that to be able to cope with death

 

[Raava]

The hardest part is when there's a gathering, some type of party, a boxing match, anything, and the door opens and for a split second u think it's them.

It was soooo much drama with my cousin's death that just added to the emotional stress. I have to pass by where he is buried kinda often, it still stings. I still can't believe it sometimes, like you said I expect him to be there. I think losing someone is worse when it is so shocking.

 

[RealAssanova]

Ain't no reuniting, u just tell urself that to be able to cope with death

you believe in afterlife breh?

if i make it to heaven, and my parents too, i'll hopefully be reunited with em.