How did your last relationship end?

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Was it your fault?

What did you learn?

How did it grow you?

I learned never to date a woman my mom gives a side eye to. And never date a woman who was raised by her mother and grandmother.

I don't think it was my fault. I should have paid more attention to red flags though. Probably also shouldn't have taken her seriously.

I've learned to cherish women who are tender and well mannered.
 
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The last one

She was needy and crazy. And she flirted with nikkas to much

I had no feelings toward her really. She was a Sagittarius.



The one before her.

I got tired of her and dumped her cause she was a Aries they crazy women with mood swings.

Both of them was flirts idk if they cheated.


Idc about lessons i just move on to the next.
 

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The last one

She was needy and crazy. And she flirted with nikkas to much

I had no feelings toward her really. She was a Sagittarius.



The one before her.

I got tired of her and dumped her cause she was a Aries they crazy women with mood swings.

Both of them was flirts idk if they cheated.


Idc about lessons i just move on to the next.


Let horoscopes effect your decisions brehs
 

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The last one

She was needy and crazy. And she flirted with nikkas to much

I had no feelings toward her really. She was a Sagittarius.



The one before her.

I got tired of her and dumped her cause she was a Aries they crazy women with mood swings.

Both of them was flirts idk if they cheated.


Idc about lessons i just move on to the next.
You actually use zodiac signs to determine a person's character?


Obligatory. :mjgrin:
 

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Sometimes a person will stay in a situation even though their heart isn't really in it. For months my behavior changed and it showed.

No sense in settling or remaining in a situation where you're not happy.

Besides, there are so many available thotties ouchea'. Man, they're all over the place
 

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It ended badly to say the least.

To keep it short: It was partly my fault because I overlooked the red flags. It was clear we weren't compatible in the beginning. Not to mention he was a narcissist, and anyone who's ever dealt with those type of people understand where I'm coming from.

I learned to always go with your first mind/intuition. That would have saved me a lot of trouble. I learned an assortment of lessons and what to look for when coming to relationships.
 
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Was it your fault?

Nah, shorty was a serial cheater and honestly very insecure.

What did you learn?

Set boundaries and expectations early.

How did it grow you?

Learned to value myself more. Learned to walk away if there's something I don't like. I did before, but I thought this chick had something I wasn't going to find elsewhere.

I learned to stop trying to save a woman. Get with a woman who isn't necessarily complete, but wants to actively do better. I'm not nor have I ever been a Captain Save-a-Hoe, but chick had some serious issues because she never dealt with a rape that happened to her a few years prior to me.

Learned later on she kept an ex around and ultimately she was just an all around insecure person.

Not to put it all on her, I noticed some things early on and I didn't check nor did I bounce, because I thought I could help her. Big mistake.
 
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