How Do Dudes Stay W/ Girls Who Put On Mad Weight

[MaxPain]

If my man got sick and gained weight because of meds or a medical condition, I love him enough to suck it up and deal with it

Him gaining a crazy amount of weight over pure laziness is another story though.

Its because of laziness on her part and meds. She never worked out cuz shes naturally slim but the doctor said she needa workout and eat healthier , cant afford to slack like she usually does or it will pile. Oh and it piled

That just makes him a shytty person. Obliviously she had health issues. Or do we only love people when they're 100% healthy?

Hes a shytty person cuz a grown ass woman cant keep her weight in check romantic love is conditional u have to contribute to the relationship ya know. I doubt shed stay if he lost his job & started bumming it for months.

 

[Blessings]

To me it's a sign of disrespect, same with the chicks who don't give head. You don't care enough about this relationship to try to stay fit and sexy.

beat me to it


/thread

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Its because of laziness on her part and meds.





Hes a shytty person cuz a grown ass woman cant keep her weight in check romantic love is conditional u have to contribute to the relationship ya know. I doubt shed stay if he lost his job & started bumming it for months.

Now you're adding that she was lazyAll you said was she started takings meds and gained weight. And again, that would be a shytty reason to dump someone. Because they got sick, which is rarely something you. An control.

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

If your girl is putting on that kinda weight under the circumstances specified in the OP, you're not doing your job as her man. Now, I usually go hard on the bytches in my posts, but I gotta put this particular responsibility on us.

I had this EXACT same situation with my ex girlfriend. She gained hella weight after she moved in with me, the relationship got stale, and I stayed with her in that rut for a while. I was dissatisfied, but it was my fault. When we first met, I was the fukkin man in her eyes. She would have done anything for me, and would've probably harmed herself if I left her. I was the leader of the relationship, and it was fun and interesting. Later in the relationship, I took my foot off the gas, and started coasting. This is why she fell off so hard in both her looks and attitude.

You gotta be constantly upgrading yourself and your girl, or else one of two things will happen: 1.) She will fall way off, as previously described, and/or 2.) She will find that upgrade elsewhere, with the next nikka.

 

[MaxPain]

Now you're adding that she was lazyAll you said was she started takings meds and gained weight. And again, that would be a shytty reason to dump someone. Because they got sick, which is rarely something you. An control.

Well I clarified it. Still see nothing wrong with it. She needs to control her weight its not his fault at all. They young and not married w kids so

Then again , looking @ ur avi ur urself so Id see why u would wanna excuse this.

Better than staying with her and cheating or wasting his time with someone he isnt attracted to.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Like you said they get comfortable.

Had a good woman like that who ballooned up on me after we moved in together.

Noped the eff outta that situation quick.

She lost like 20 lbs over the next 2 months (no appetite) and we got back together.

She got back with you

You an ass


@Hennessypapi she was taking medication and he did that? your friend is an ass.


My God, men ain't shyt fr fr

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Well I clarified it. Still see nothing wrong with it. She needs to control her weight its not his fault at all. They young and not married w kids so

Then again , looking @ ur avi ur urself so Id see why u would wanna excuse this.

Better than staying with her and cheating or wasting his time with someone he isnt attracted to.

You hang around a lot of ain't shyt nikkas. Starting to see a pattern.

 

[MaxPain]

If your girl is putting on that kinda weight under the circumstances specified in the OP, you're not doing your job as her man. Now, I usually go hard on the bytches in my posts, but I gotta put this particular responsibility on us.

I had this EXACT same situation with my ex girlfriend. She gained hella weight after she moved in with me, the relationship got stale, and I stayed with her in that rut for a while. I was dissatisfied, but it was my fault. When we first met, I was the fukkin man in her eyes. She would have done anything for me, and would've probably harmed herself if I left her. I was the leader of the relationship, and it was fun and interesting. Later in the relationship, I took my foot off the gas, and started coasting. This is why she fell off so hard in both her looks and attitude.

You gotta be constantly upgrading yourself and your girl, or else one of two things will happen: 1.) She will fall way off, as previously described, and/or 2.) She will find that upgrade elsewhere, with the next nikka.

I agree with being the man and the leader . I set boundaries and all that . The relationship usually moves how I want it to move.But there are a few things I WILL not help a woman with primarily because they are grown adults (yes I still see women as adults) & its not my job to baby sit them, and thats

Past trauma they cant get over
Money Problems
Weight Gain


If she cant control these then she shouldnt be in a relationship. I will bid her my farewells and hope her the best cuz no one can do it for her but herself.

 

[MaxPain]

You hang around a lot of ain't shyt nikkas. Starting to see a pattern.

You just mad cuz u shop in the Big & Tall section.

She got back with you

You an ass


@Hennessypapi she was taking medication and he did that? your friend is an ass.


My God, men ain't shyt fr fr

Doctor said for her to start working out or the weight will pile on & she aint listen i dont see the issue


But if he cheated on her while staying with her even tho he aint attracted to he would be wrong yeah ok

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Loyalty

 

[Rockstar Mom]

You just mad cuz u shop in the Big & Tall section.





Doctor said for her to start working out or the weight will pile on & she aint listen i dont see the issue


But if he cheated on her while staying with her even tho he aint attracted to he would be wrong yeah ok

In 5'1 and still wear juniors

 

[Blessings]

Man buys overweight Undy girlfriend a small ring | Daily Mail Online

 

[MaxPain]

In 5'1 and still wear juniors

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Depends on where the weight goes

Obviously if you're not attracted to somebody you have the right to flee.

 

[XII]

If my man got sick and gained weight because of meds or a medical condition, I love him enough to suck it up and deal with it

Him gaining a crazy amount of weight over pure laziness is another story though.

Well of course you would because you're already big

If he starts putting on extra weight what can you really say to him