How do I become a better person

[YOGEBEAR09]

My life is really a mess and I am always involved in some kind of trouble or fukkerry and I'm tired of being in these situations . I think of myself as a horrible person that hurt the people I love the most. I want to work to become a better person because the way that my life is heading right now things will only get worse and worse. I really need help before it's too late for me. I know I can really be a great person but I make some many mistakes and do so many dumb things even though I know there will be huge consequences because sometimes I just can't help myself. I want to work on me because I know I am not going down the path that I know I should be on. Help me brehs

 

[Hersh]

the first step is acceptance

 

[1 other person]

What do you mean? You're a scumbag? It was never hard for me to not fukk people over I felt didnt deserve it. But thats just me.

 

[Dr. Sebi Jr.]

Get woke.

 

[Woman of god]

What do you think has caused u to make bad decisions in the past ?

Like was it a specific thing or things ? Drugs? Alcohol? Pent up anger ? Mental illness?

 

[Supa cat]

send a couple hundred dollars to my bank account

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

What do you think has caused u to make bad decisions in the past ?

Like was it a specific thing or things ? Drugs? Alcohol? Pent up anger ? Mental illness?

Sometimes it's anger but most of the time i just don't care what happensure at all.

 

[Woman of god]

Sometimes it's anger but most of the time i just don't care what happensure at all.

And y now have u started to care?

 

[Seedz]

the first step is acceptance

Ding ding ding

 

[mannyrs13]

We can recommend books, websites, people to talk to, etc. But it all starts with you. Only you can make that change. Small steps at first and go from there. Pick one thing you want to change and start with that.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

Monday night Bible study

 

[GreenGrass]

wake up early morning at 5 am

do some reading - read the scriptures

after that, you study / work hard

then you excercise

then you enjoy life

repeat this every day

also eat healthy

say no to drugs

say no to risky sexy

man need woman, woman needs man

get married, breh

 

[notPsychosiz]

I used to think I had done horrible things.
Until I did my first truly horrible thing.
Then I realized all the things I had thought were horrible... were merely terrible.

So my advice, and I urge you to take it... is this:
Do not use 'I am already a bad person' to justify doing further atrocities. Or one day you will cross a line which dwarfs your previous actions, and you will be forever sorry.

Listen to your heart.
A righteous man cannot co-habitate with evil. Cacs, jews, cops, rapists, murderers. You will know evil when you see it. Trust your instinct.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

And y now have u started to care?

I'm tired of being in fukk ed up situations but all of these situations really derive from my ex cuz no matter how much I work to avoid her and be separate from her she always get me back into some fukked up situation

 

[Disgustya Stallone]

n*gga, surround yourself with better people