How do I get over my fear of rejection?

TM101

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Not just of women, but of everything in general.I feel like I'll get rejected from anything so I don't really try.
 

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stop putting the p*ssy on a pedestal. so what if she rejects u? u think just cause she sexy she was great? probably would have been the craziest bytch u ever met and would have drove u nuts.
 

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when you recognize you're afraid, within that moment, you should use that fear and just go for it. in a calm manner.
 

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Its a mindset. You have to stop giving a fukk. Get out of your own mind. I relate to you OP. Ive been there. Getting "rejected" by a female that i cold approached years ago was one of the best things to ever happen to me. All she did was smile and say "awww thank u...but i have a boyfriend". Thats it!!! She didnt curse me out or blow my head off with a shotgun. You're definantly goin to have to change your mindstate. Get out of your own head. Nobody is thinking about you like that for you to be so self concious
 

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It just feels like my individual is being rejected, not my approach or style, or credentials when people say no.

I know it's not rational, I'm just explaining how I feel.
the only way for you to get over it then is through more experience. Eventually you wont give a fukk:yeshrug:
 

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Gaddam your entire post history is filled with this kind of shyt. You have very low self esteem and likely some kind of social anxiety/avoidance disorder. Seek therapy, your brain is not working correctly.
 

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What's the worst that could happen? They say no? You not gonna die breh

Basically.

And, you're gonna miss out on 100% of the opportunities you don't try for.


I mean,
so many times, by holding back I let the good things pass me by.
And then one day I asked myself THE REASON WHYYYY...
And like an answer from above you came into my life.


 
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