A lot of posters try to get a reactions from bw. There’s a lot of blk men on that vinegar courtship steez. They never got attention from the bw they desired and so a lot of them wanna push non-bw in bw faces.
I could care less about it but it’s cringeworthy and obvious. Because when bw don’t care, they’ll go and find some obscure tweet with a handful of likes crying about it to feel validated. What’s interesting is that when bw like
@CarmelBarbie encourages blk men to get the women they desire, some also got mad at her too. Why? Because they want us to care. A large portion of bw absolutely do not care about blk men dating anymore. But that’s not good enough either.
Otherwise, the only other issue I see is the hypocrisy. There are posters who’ve literally tried to argue blk posters down out of protection of white women if anybody says something truthful about them. Or they try to bring blk women into the mix if somebody makes a negative observation about white women. Some posters have also alluded to white women not being oppressors or racists like white men which is not only embarrassing but also dangerous.

Also it’s funny to see the same men lusting after non-blk women, hit a heel turn and have “bedwench” on the tip of their tongues ready yo go if blk women date out, all while also telling blk women that they not desired.
I’ve been personally told that bw couldn’t date non-blk man, then been called a everything under the sun when sharing that my experiences IR dating didn’t match these dire duck tales a lotta dudes spin about blk women. The cognitive dissonance is real and hilarious, but I think blk men and blk women just need to stop trying to weaponize IR dating against each other. Get who you want and KIM without the nonsense. If anybody asks me whether I think Bruce Lee is cute, I don’t have a huge sob story about da big evil blk man dat treated me horribly or ignored me to justify me thinking somebody got cute eyes.

The crazy part is that both bw AND bm have the same embarrassing ass playbook when it comes to this type of stuff. They don’t even realize they just trying to escape themselves and the community that didn’t kiss their asses for having different hobbies.

