How do y’all deal with parents asking for grandchildren

[The Radiant One]

Honestly they keep asking when me and my girl are having a child and I help support them financially. I’m the only one of the their four children who supports them

My girl doesn’t want children and she is supportive and cooks. I’m down with kids if my girl is down but I don’t want kids just to have them

Especially if we get divorced

 

[Yinny]

My mom was the only one saying it

I always said “You got grandkids money?”

My dad is happy for his new grandson but he never said anything til I told him I was pregnant

 

[shopthatwrecks]

i got 6.. they begged me to stop...

 

[bnew]

wrong thread

 

[42 Monks]

they can talk all they want. what they gonna do?

go to the root of the problem which is "why are they fleeing their countries?".

 

[LuuqMaan]

I guess you tell them how you really feel.

It’s natural for older parents to want to have grandchildren

 

[ThrobbingHood]

By pulling out.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

My girl doesn’t want children

 

[Elim Garak]

Tell them exactly what you told us verbatim.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

They got 1, and now are hinting at another one lol. “That baby needs a sibling”

My parents are planning on building a new home, and keep saying, we’ll add a couple rooms for the grandkidS. Told my mom y’all ain’t slick.

We gone give ‘em one more, though. I want a boy. Got the girl.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

By pulling out.

cant do it breh

that suction of that octopuss.. my lord

 

[The Radiant One]

You have to understand that things change when a woman has kids body and like wise sex.

Also the money you will have to spend. There is also a risk that the child will be special needs

 

[The BasedFather]

Tell ‘em it ain’t gonna happen. Kids are life altering. Not just gonna have them for no reason

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You have to understand that things change when a woman has kids body and like wise sex.

Also the money you will have to spend. There is also a risk that the child will be special needs

When a woman wants a child, believe me, she will get one. I’ll just leave it at that and wish you good luck.

 

[315]

My mom has never asked me about it.