How do y'all feel about family members/friends who call to complain all the fukking time??

gho3st

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do you pick up the phone? do you block their numbers? or flat out tell them to stop calling you compalining about their problems, sounding mad depressed over the phone?

I told a family member to go see a therapist. and they aint like it. people say I'm insensitive but idc :yeshrug:
 

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I just don’t even bother answering the phone if I know who it is or tell them I’ll call them back later (I don’t) as some days you just don’t feel like hearing it.
 

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I think the more you let them bytch and complain the more they will call you to bytch and complain. It's not always easy to tell some people the truth and that you don't want to hear their problems. but that is probably the best way to go about it. you just might have to be nicer with it to the more sensitive people.
 

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They can take that shyt elsewhere
 

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If you call every now and then to vent that's cool, but If call everyday trying not to fix situation then I'll have to cut you off.
9 times out of 10 those people are users anyway
 

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Doesn’t really happen too much, so when I do have a family member call to complain, I listen. It’s usually a cousin if it does happen
 
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the Fam?





imagine telling the fam don't call :huhldup:. even if i don't care i'll pretend and just throw in a "mhmm.... damnnn....really?" every now and then lol
 

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Annoying, it’s cool to vent but consistent complaining is like nails scratching a chalk board. Try to change it or shut up.
 

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Yeah I don’t answer :yeshrug:

Sometimes cause I care about them I’ll give them 10 mins
 

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If they call once in a while to vent then that isn’t a problem but if they consistently call me every time they need to vent then that’s when I start to get annoyed and don’t pick up the call.
 
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