How do you bag a chick in another city?

[Music Fiend]

Went out this weekend. me and the homies went to the first bar, and I'm in the zone so I'm just thinking ima get the first bullet out the chamber. So I approach this bad mexican/black chick easily a 9.

Chemistry was a1. Get the digits and bounce. End of the night she shows up randomly at another bar we are at and shes grinding on me, kissing on me, letting me feel her up. So I know I had it in a bag.

A fight broke out and I ended up losing her in the crowd when everybody got kicked out before I could get her to roll out with me. I was just gonna take that L cuz she lives an hr away.

But today, my boss asked me to take a training course in her city on friday and I'll have a hotel. How do I play this right?

Don't wanna come off too forward since the timing is different.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

it's either you tip toe around the issue and you don't smash, or you tell her you'll be in town and invite her over. It's not calculus bruh

 

[Music Fiend]

it's either you tip toe around the issue and you don't smash, or you tell her you'll be in town and invite her over. It's not calculus bruh

I get it, preciate it man. I know it's not a difficult thing but I suppose I didn't want to be too upfront like I would with another chick in my city because it as left on such a cliffhanger and asking a chick to come through my place when the vibe is already lit is a little different than telling a chick to come through my hotel a week later. U feel me?

Maybe I'm overthinking and should just play it like I normally would.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I get it, preciate it man. I know it's not a difficult thing but I suppose I didn't want to be too upfront like I would with another chick in my city because it as left on such a cliffhanger and asking a chick to come through my place when the vibe is already lit is a little different than telling a chick to come through my hotel a week later. U feel me?

Maybe I'm overthinking and should just play it like I normally would.

A female knows upfront if they are going to sleep with you or not. If she agrees to come through then you pretty much have the green light

 

[Draje]

"Hey bytch, come to my spot for some sweet tea and dikk"



Works 75% of the time, all the time

 

[Music Fiend]

A female knows upfront if they are going to sleep with you or not. If she agrees to come through then you pretty much have the green light

Word, so I shouldn't even bother tryna rekindle that vibe like link up with first then just take her back my place? Just call her up and tell her is what your saying right.

"Hey bytch, come to my spot for some sweet tea and dikk"



Works 75% of the time, all the time

this usually works for me in-person but rarely on the phone. I'm contemplating having her meet me at a bar or something first then making the way back to the telly

 

[DougFunnY]

Tell her you from Ny. Brooklyn specifically

 

[Music Fiend]

Tell her you from Ny. Brooklyn specifically

lol tf breh

 

[The_Sheff]

Get online and search them out the way middle of nowhere cities. It's fine chicks there with nothing to do. They gonna have a kid though.

 

[Music Fiend]

Get online and search them out the way middle of nowhere cities. It's fine chicks there with nothing to do. They gonna have a kid though.

homie aint read the post. all good tho

 

[Music Fiend]

So meet her out and swang thru the hotel? Or straight up tell her just to come thru

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

You Don't wanna put performance anxieties on ya self breh...
Hit up another broad if she busy

 

[BobbyBooshay]

Tinder - so many chicks wanting to show you around a new city

 

[Music Fiend]

You Don't wanna put performance anxieties on ya self breh...
Hit up another broad if she busy

Tinder - so many chicks wanting to show you around a new city

Huh? Y'all nikkas still ain't reading the post lol. No anxiety here, just thought she might act brand new if I act her to come thru my hotel.

 

[greenz]

just don't fukk it up like dude in the other thread that wouldn't talk to the bytch thats was staring him down cuz he didn't want a relationship.

Most of the times i think as men we just overthink i've done it we have all done it but lately when you have the attitude that you just don't give a fukk all that overthinking goes out the window. Just go with the flow mang you'll be straight hit her up she what she talkin bout if not i'm sure you will find anotha joint to occupy your time while your down there.