How do you feel about being pressed for marriage plans a year into a relationship?

[Mirin4rmfar]

How long to date do you think it is reasonable for a woman to start stressing for marriage plans? Let's say this is the woman you ideally see as the mother of your kids and potentially your wife?

 

[Xcenai]

women switch up so fast .. you'd be a damn fool

one day you're the love of her life, next day you're literal garbage to her

 

[Evil genius Jay]

In years 3, for me. If my girlfriend pressure me, she going to wait. It my decision not her. Right?

 

[Paper Boi]

marriage is natural conclusion for some relationships

if you are pressured into it in 2023

it aint gonna work

 

[ReggieFlare]

I don’t there’s an “unreasonable” time for her to ask or even bring it up, especially if she’s 30+. If you that dude like I am she could wanna marry you in a month.

Personally, I’m not seriously entertaining the thought of getting married to anyone that I’ve been seeing for less than 6 months.

 

[Turbulent]

Depends on her age. I'd say 9months+ is normal.

But just because she pressures, doesn't mean we have to say yes. GMB is the army.

 

[Uachet]

If she attempts to pressure you into marriage, that means she is not the one you want to marry. Go with your gut and let that woman go if you are trying to find yourself a wife, because you do not view her as one if she is pressuring you.

 

[Shadow King]

A better question for a GMB breh is at what point of the relationship do you warn that marriage isn't coming?

 

[Shadow King]

Depends on her age. I'd say 9months+ is normal.

But just because she pressures, doesn't mean we have to say yes. GMB is the army.

9 months? Do you view a mention the same as pressuring?

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

marriage is natural conclusion for some relationships

I disagree, at the very least the term marriage. Monogamy might be better.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

GMB is the army.

Better yet, the Navy.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

depends whether she is expecting a date or trying to see your frame of mind on marriage which is fine.

 

[skyrunner1]

How long to date do you think it is reasonable for a woman to start stressing for marriage plans? Let's say this is the woman you ideally see as the mother of your kids and potentially your wife?

Age is important for both parties, how old are you and her? Its important to give clear answer

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

How old are you (Or is she)?

and is she pressing to get married or see if you know she’s someone you could marry - two different things.

But ain’t nobody trying to waste time with someone who hasn’t figured out if they can see themselves with that person, at a certain age, after a year of dating, you should know, regardless of if yall take the next step or not

 

[ItsPeople]

Just be honest with your intentions.