How do you like to be approached?

[PortCityProphet]

In any general environment how do you like a man to approach you?
A simple "hey how's it going I'm PCP"
Or something a little more creative? Cheesey but funny pick up line?
Or something aggressive and more forward?
what's gonna be the way for a guy to get in them draws

 

[Arishok]

Normal conversation

 

[miranda]

In any general environment how do you like a man to approach you?

'hello, you're looking very beautiful today, i was wondering if i could get you number and take you out sometime"

straight to the point, no BS

no salacious comments about my breasts, lips, or legs, i know they're nice but try to control yourself

i like your hair, you're very pretty, you smell nice(no comments abot wanting to bite me or the bite motion with your teeth please), and a number request are also fine

what's gonna be the way for a guy to get in them draws

look like Derek Luke

I curve 99% of dudes that approach because i'm on bitter leved 100 right now, but maybe he'll catch me right after i've watched endless sunshine of the spotless mind and am back down to jaded level 100 but willing to try or he could just...

Spoiler

LOOK LIKE DEREK LUKE

that would definitely work

 

[CinnaSlim]

Hey, how are you? *insert compliment* ask questions, start conversation.

 

[Elle Driver]

Cheesy pick up line pls and thank you.

 

[PortCityProphet]

go on

 

[LadySimone]

Well obviously if he is attractive than he can approach me any way.

 

[Raava]

Normal upfront convo. People talk to me randomly while I am out ( ). I don't assume everyone is trying to approach me in that way. So if the guy is, just be normal and make it clear you want to keep in contact/you are interested. Don't take forever to do it either.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Normal upfront convo. People talk to me randomly while I am out ( ). I don't assume everyone is trying to approach me in that way. So if the guy is, just be normal and make it clear you want to keep in contact/you are interested. Don't take forever to do it either.

how do you determined if a dude took too long?

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Or he can tell me that he's the Prince of Zamunda.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

But honestly, like everyone else general convo. Like ask me about the last movie I saw, what song do I hate & have to turn from every time it plays... Etc...

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Normal upfront convo. People talk to me randomly while I am out ( ). I don't assume everyone is trying to approach me in that way. So if the guy is, just be normal and make it clear you want to keep in contact/you are interested. Don't take forever to do it either.

just like a baby I could not talk
And I tried to come closer but could not walk

Spoiler

 

[Raava]

how do you determined if a dude took too long?

I guess it depends on where we are. I wouldn't expect to talk to someone in the store for like 30 minutes that's a TV show 3 to 7 minutes maybe. At a party/lounge/outing event maybe more. But this is subjective, I don't really chit chat with people I just met. Some other women might. Unless I was on a date or something I can't remember be being out and talking to a stranger for a long amount of time. Unless they just would not end the convo and I was dying on the inside. I would rather them just speak a little small talk then get or exchange information. You can get to know me if we start talking.

On the first initial meeting a person has to ask me about the others life, hopes, and dreams to show they want to get to know them. If you are talking to me past hello and asking for my information then that's obvious.

 

[Raava]

just like a baby I could not talk
And I tried to come closer but could not walk

Spoiler

I did not know it was "And I tried to come closer but could not walk" shame.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I guess it depends on where we are. I wouldn't expect to talk to someone in the store for like 30 minutes that's a TV show 3 to 7 minutes maybe. At a party/lounge/outing event maybe more. But this is subjective, I don't really chit chat with people I just met. Some other women might. Unless I was on a date or something I can't remember be being out and talking to a stranger for a long amount of time. Unless they just would not end the convo and I was dying on the inside. I would rather them just speak a little small talk then get or exchange information. You can get to know me if we start talking.

On the first initial meeting a person has to ask me about the others life, hopes, and dreams to show they want to get to know them. If you are talking to me past hello and asking for my information then that's obvious.

I feel you on that.
I got shot down at my last job tryna holla at a chick I heard was a freak.
probably cuz I waited like 4 months to try to get her number.
(even though I never would speak to her other than a HI and BYE)