How do you like to be approached?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

But honestly, like everyone else general convo. Like ask me about the last movie I saw, what song do I hate & have to turn from every time it plays... Etc...

I doubt you wanna hear those questions from a dude that stopped you at the mall

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

just like a baby I could not talk
And I tried to come closer but could not walk

Spoiler

"And I dreamed of you ever since. Now I built up my confidence"

 

[bigmac]

bytches will be all in the Internet saying approach me this way and approach me that way and when a nikka does it in real life they still curve 'em.

There ain't a formula. I guess I can only speak for myself but a lot of it is timing. Sometimes you win simply by trying in the first place

 

[ben anderson]

be attractive.

 

[no.]

''hello, what's your name?''

i don't care about compliments or anything. just ask about me & my life, and i'll ask about his.

 

[Raava]

bytches will be all in the Internet saying approach me this way and approach me that way and when a nikka does it in real life they still curve 'em.

There ain't a formula. I guess I can only speak for myself but a lot of it is timing. Sometimes you win simply by trying in the first place

approach doesn't mean you will automatically get the info, they have to be attracted to you or something about you too. You right there is not way to talk to every woman and be %100 successful %100 of the time. He asked how to they like to be approached. And why we gotta be bytches?

 

[Raava]

I feel you on that.
I got shot down at my last job tryna holla at a chick I heard was a freak.
probably cuz I waited like 4 months to try to get her number.
(even though I never would speak to her other than a HI and BYE)

Just because your u hear something doesn't mean it's true and just because she may be a freak doesn't mean she will be one for anybody she may not be initially attracted. Or yea maybe it was your approach sometimes you will never know what a woman was thinking

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Just because your u hear something doesn't mean it's true and just because she may be a freak doesn't mean she will be one for anybody she may not be initially attracted. Or yea maybe it was your approach sometimes you will never know what a woman was thinking

I ain't tripping.
just at the time I thought I probably waited too long.
its like females think, "hmmm he seem like he want me cuz I see him looking.....ughhh now he wanna sit after all thus time. Why he ain't just talk to me when he first saw me just like the other dudes I let fukk?"

 

[miranda]

bytches will be all in the Internet saying approach me this way and approach me that way and when a nikka does it in real life they still curve 'em.

There ain't a formula. I guess I can only speak for myself but a lot of it is timing. Sometimes you win simply by trying in the first place

Please don't come in this section talking that "these bytches and hoes" stuff
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I'm just saying be direct and approach and state what you want. All of that extended small talk or trying to get too familiar is just uncomfortable and weird. If I look good and therefore you want my number just let me know. All of the extended staring and asking what I'm listening to or reading or whatever angle is not going to work.

Its really all based if I think you're fine anyway
If I think you're cute and you didn't approach in a sleazy way, okay
If not, I just say I'm flattered but no, or I have a boyfriend