How do you want your funeral?

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I want mine to be a big party. No crying, just people telling funny stories about the times they had with me. Good food, even better music. After the party my closest friends and family will take my ashes and throw them into the Atlantic Ocean. I’m about to write this up in a will
 

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Every time someone dies, I remember their legacy and I apply it to my life, that’s how I celebrate their lives. For instance my mom was a doer. A lot of people talk shyt about what they were going to do but few do. My mom did. So I started doing. She was also a teacher. She always said that’s what she wanted to do—teach. During her funeral we discovered that’s what she was doing her whole life with everyone. Teaching when she could. I took those legacies of hers and kept those close to me. She was cremated. My grandma, my uncle, my cousins—each one, a legacy left behind that I carry now.

My grandpa died recently. He was humble and so modest. A man of few words. I’m learning to apply those things to my life.

For my funeral I just want to be cremated and I want people to just live by the legacy I leave behind. No crying. No pain. Because if you carry their legacies and memories they stay with you anyway.

Another good thread.
 
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Every time someone dies, I remember there legacy and I apply it to my life, that’s how I celebrate their lives. For instance my mom was a doer. A lot of people talk shyt about what they were going to do but few do. My mom did. So I started doing. She was also a teacher. I took those legacies of hers and kept those close to me. She was cremated. My grandma, my uncle, my cousins—each one, a legacy left behind that I carry now.

My grandpa died recently. He was humble and so modest. A man of few words. I’m learning to apply those things to my life.

For my funeral I just want to be cremated and I want people to just live by the legacy I leave behind. No crying. No pain. Because if you carry their legacies and memories they stay with you anyway.

Another good thread.
This was beautiful. I’m dealing with a loss but your words of wisdom have eased my heart.
 

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might not matter
my step dad was an athiest
but they gave him a religious funeral anyway
pastor said "i bet he now knows that he was wrong about god" :dead:

so good luck enforcing all of this bs :heh:
 
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