King Harlem
Superstar
Just curious.
How Does The Coli feel about giving money to a woman you are dating?
- Thread starter King Harlem
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King Harlem
Superstar
Good question. It's pretty general. Someone you're dating but not engaged to or living with. Also add non-emergency.
TheKongoEmpire
The First Men
Did she ask or one just giving it to her? How did she present herself? A boss biitch or just a regular person? Her character traits? Is she selfish or self-centered? Does she share? What do you mean by "dating"?
King Harlem
Superstar
Go ahead and answer each of your own questions. Dating meaning it is a monogamous committed relationship.
Giving, as in buying a lunch or some other gift, that's just something I'll do on my own, once you're in my circle like THAT you're family.
Now if she's asking for money for something specific, I'ma need some specifics.
Now if she's asking for money for something specific, I'ma need some specifics.
My mans left a few hundred in her cash app. Just dating not together. Fast forward bout 1-2 years they’re married now. It is what it is. Me personally, couldn’t be me. I’m gonna need those funds back or paid forward in some way.
She throws that shyt in his face all the time when they argue. Sometimes they not even arguing it’s just to flex around new people. smh
She throws that shyt in his face all the time when they argue. Sometimes they not even arguing it’s just to flex around new people. smh
BelieveBeOK
Superstar
I'm very much okay with spending on shared experiences (even if I'm doing 70% of it) and buying gifts but if my girl ever asked me for money.....
the cac mamba
Veteran
no it isnt
King Harlem
Superstar
Lol. I was trying to just ask a general question, but it seems like most people want exact scenarios.
Save yourself stress, didn't date women who can't manage their money and have a full time job. Her problems become your problems and your stress goes up for no reason. Hell that goes for anyone. People with money problems will always have money problems.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Only in a serious relationship & it's NOT one-sided
I give my lady money to go get her hair done, nails, outfit, lingerie
once in a while.
She buys me random gifts too , if she is out shopping & sees nice clothes or cologne she buys them for me.
I give my lady money to go get her hair done, nails, outfit, lingerie
once in a while.She buys me random gifts too , if she is out shopping & sees nice clothes or cologne she buys them for me.
Bigen King
All Star
I don’t fukk with or date broke women so I’ve never been asked to pay a bill or anything crazy, but I have paid for a lot of hands and feet over the years.
I do buy gifts almost monthly for the women I’m currently dating she’s super chill n unproblematic which is a first.
I do buy gifts almost monthly for the women I’m currently dating she’s super chill n unproblematic which is a first.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
the same as any type of gift to anyone else.... it should be given from the heart and with no expectation
if you are speaking on some type of request or obligation, i can't speak on that. i don't be asking dudes for money.
if you are speaking on some type of request or obligation, i can't speak on that. i don't be asking dudes for money.