How exactly does one become more aggressive/assertive

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Stop acting like a bytch, Daniel-son








Actually just put it in your mind to stop letting people walk over you... have some foresight


Think if you allow this situation to happen (someone talk to you crazy, mentally abuse you, discredit you, etc.,) would you regret it?


I’ve lost some friends over they way I think and kinda don’t care... they gonna need me before I ever need them in my mind and from shyt in the past.. they basically tried to discredit my opinion and I assertively reminded them how stupid their opinions in many areas actually are compared to mines.
 

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I’m a pretty chill go with the flow type of guy normally
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But the older I get, the more I realize this is just holding me back both in my personal & professional life.

Y’all got any tips on how to be more assertive and really take control:jbhmm:

This is not neccesarily a weakness as you percieve it to be.
Certain signs just carry the ability to see things from many different perspectives and don't form stances immediately.
I am like that as a Pisces,but I don't consider it to be a weakeness.
What you need to do is just learn to speak up and take a stand on things you solidly stand for and are against.
Some people prefer you to be docile and not speak out,like these coli mods who are out to get me for holding people accountable:martin:
 
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