How frequently do y’all message women after the first date?

[JA_Carter]

Y’all ever had a girl complain you don’t message her enough after the first date? We got a second date lined up this week (2 weeks from our first), im not the type to message daily when we’re getting to know each other but she complained that she expects more frequent communication and feels it’s a sign I’m not interested. How would y’all react

 

[Mordith]

Nikkas on here are grown men and don't know how to close......

 

[Arcavian]

she gave you the key and your not taking them because ..?!?!!?!

message her you dummy

nikka can message us everyday but not a woman he likes, what kinda stupid shyt....

 

[JA_Carter]

she gave you the key and your not taking them because ..?!?!!?!

message her you dummy

nikka can message us everyday but not a woman he likes, what kinda stupid shyt....

When you’ve got a roster it’s a headache messaging them every day

 

[Gains]

When you’ve got a roster it’s a headache messaging them every day

 

[Jazzy B.]

She aint your lady and you aint yet smashed.

fukk what she wants.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Everyday for a second date is excessive. You need to cut her

 

[Arcavian]

When you’ve got a roster it’s a headache messaging them every day

When you really have a roster you can send the same text to all of them....




......you can even automate that shyt

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I personally just go with their flow at first. I’ll message her but it’s usually a joke or something related to what we talked about on the first date to get the ball rolling. If she one word answering or I get the vibe I’m doing the heavy lifting

And usually that decision is correct because she never reaches back out 80% of the time. If they’re interested they will initiate a conversation.

Sounds like she’s interested in texting but you fumbling by thinking too much.

 

[JA_Carter]

When you really have a roster you can send the same text to all of them....




......you can even automate that shyt

I’m not a fan of small talk during the early stages, during the early stages I keep my calls/messages strictly about setting up a date, I’m not trying to be pen pals before I’ve even smashed. So I can’t send the same message to them all when I’m trying to spread out the dates

 

[Arcavian]

I’m not trying to be pen pals before I’ve even smashed.

How effective is that?

 

[King Poetic]

Thats the easiest way to smash

Watching tv u start massaging her neck/shoulders work on her back while u caressing her neck, next thing u know your hands down her pants and rubbing on her ass and next thing u know u finger poppin her p*ssy and she ready to buss them legs open 10 to 2 in the air

 

[UpAndComing]

I hate that I'm typing this but... don't give in lol

Keep doing what you are doing. It sounds like she wants the tables to be flipped where you become emotionally too attached and she can "take charge" in your interactions with her. There's a fine line that you can overstep if you are constantly contacting her and she sees you as needy

 

[JA_Carter]

How effective is that?

I’d say it works 70% of the time, humbly I’m tall, handsome, doing well and I’m very good at leaving a great impression on the first date so I don’t need to be texting every day to maintain interest. I always assume a girl I’m talking to already has guys on her roster so keeping my convos strictly about setting up dates until we smash maintains a level of intrigue and mystery.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Never. When you're handsome it requires zero effort.