How is marriage too big of commitment but having kids together isn’t?

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This is female logic... And thats a good thing! - As a woman, you shouldnt have sex with a man you dont respect.


I salute you... but men have smashed women we didnt respect for thousands of years.

When a group of men destroyed an enemy territory and captured the women - did we respect the women? Hell no.



When men see a chick with her ass out on IG, do we respect her? Hell no ... but we'd still smash.


Did white males respect black women from the 17th to the 21st century? Hell no.... but millions of mixed-race humans were created during that time all over the western hemisphere.


Respect is not necessary for erections and climax.

Men are wired different.






Besides the IG point, you naming instances of mass RAPE to highlight men being different from women. Thats not a good point to be highlighting or trying correlate with the Human male species…
 

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We need to focus on being kinder to each other. Stop trying to use people. Stop getting angry at each other while being permissive of other races. Stop believing the worst of one another. SELF accountability both blk men AND blk women.

Also fix the insecurities. Stop thinking that playing people or treating the opposite sex like shyt or using them is “edgy or cool”.

Learn how to deal with rejection and not make people pay for emotional shyt done to us in grade school. Stop hating on other people’s success and overlooking good people or acting like they are lame or bougie to deal with personal feelings of inadequacies.

A lot of good blk men and women catch strays from other blks willingly dealing with trash and trying to take that shyt out on the rest of us. We also need to return yo the basics of common sense, human decency and respect for each other. If we can get that down then everything else will follow.

pos rep but tlr is a sad place for this discussion. This place seems to love pushing hatred and discourse.

And positive relationships/interactions get shytted on.
 

Alvin

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We need to focus on being kinder to each other. Stop trying to use people. Stop getting angry at each other while being permissive of other races. Stop believing the worst of one another. SELF accountability both blk men AND blk women.

Also fix the insecurities. Stop thinking that playing people or treating the opposite sex like shyt or using them is “edgy or cool”.

Learn how to deal with rejection and not make people pay for emotional shyt done to us in grade school. Stop hating on other people’s success and overlooking good people or acting like they are lame or bougie to deal with personal feelings of inadequacies.

A lot of good blk men and women catch strays from other blks willingly dealing with trash and trying to take that shyt out on the rest of us. We also need to return yo the basics of common sense, human decency and respect for each other. If we can get that down then everything else will follow.
:ehh::ld::whew:
 

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Because the Black community no longer values marriage like that. Men want easy access to p*ssy with no commitments and women think that if they have children by that man it will convince them to stay, when rarely if ever does it work like that. The bigger issue is that we as Black people really do not value one another.
 

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Because the Black community no longer values marriage like that. Men want easy access to p*ssy with no commitments and women think that if they have children by that man it will convince them to stay, when rarely if ever does it work like that. The bigger issue is that we as Black people really do not value one another.

Hard to value each other when you many of us don't value ourselves. A lot of blame should also be put on Black Boomers, Gen X and Millennials who fell into these traps and didn't warn the next generations. I credit some older athletes and celebrities like Stephen Jackson, Boosie and TK Kirkland for mentioning in recent interviews how they regret having multiple baby mamas and if they could do it over they'd have children with one woman, ideally their wife. We need more women who fell into the trap warning younger women and men warning young men constantly, on repeat. Most Black people won't be able to pass down generational wealth, but the least those who've made major life mistakes can do is pass on generational wisdom. But of course pride always gets in the way.
 
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