How long should a man wait for a woman?

[Dixon Cider]

I'm asking how long is too long to wait for a prospective partner? Shorty wants things taken slow but shes interested. Now at what point does a man stop waiting for all this slow shyt. I like it because it adds more value if there is going to be a relationship but should I have to wait at all? Yes focusing my attention on one female because i'm so over trying to juggle different hoes and personalities I'd rather work on the one I have locally. I do feel like I will lose interest soon if we aren't kissing by next weekend.

 

[Turbulent]

What value does waiting add?

You should wait until you feel the waiting is in vain either because she's playing games or because of internal issues she's not even trying to solve.

Thing is while you wait for her, she's most likely waiting to see if there's a better option before she cashes out.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Move on, she is not that into you and is pretty much weighing her options . You probably her 3rd round prospect, first round prospect is getting the benefit of the doubt until he busts.

 

[Dixon Cider]

What value does waiting add?

You should wait until you feel the waiting is in vain either because she's playing games or because of internal issues she's not even trying to solve.

Thing is while you wait for her, she's most likely waiting to see if there's a better option before she cashes out.

I'm in kind of a pickle then. I actually don't know why I like her and she is hot but something else is at play... Maybe It's for the companionship.

 

[Groanman]

What value does waiting add?

You should wait until you feel the waiting is in vain either because she's playing games or because of internal issues she's not even trying to solve.

Thing is while you wait for her, she's most likely waiting to see if there's a better option before she cashes out.

HE AIN'T LYIN'

 

[Diondon]

It depends, but if you can't sense that she's into you and playing games
Keep it pushing

 

[the bossman]

If that bytch was really into you she wouldn't be talking that waiting nonsense.

 

[Dixon Cider]

It depends, but if you can't sense that she's into you and playing games
Keep it pushing

Hasn't really been games. Confusing signals yes but the attraction and interest is there on both sides so I'm sticking it out for a while longer at least. Still she has a small wall up from healing.

 

[BezO]

I'm asking how long is too long to wait for a prospective partner? Shorty wants things taken slow but shes interested. Now at what point does a man stop waiting for all this slow shyt. I like it because it adds more value if there is going to be a relationship but should I have to wait at all? Yes focusing my attention on one female because i'm so over trying to juggle different hoes and personalities I'd rather work on the one I have locally. I do feel like I will lose interest soon if we aren't kissing by next weekend.

Only you can answer how long is too long. A few things though...

Why do you like her? Are those qualities gonna to keep you interested after the ass gets old? Why is she waitin'?

Basically, put some effort into gettin' the info you need to make your decision.

 

[Diondon]

Hasn't really been games. Confusing signals yes but the attraction and interest is there on both sides so I'm sticking it out for a while longer at least. Still she has a small wall up from healing.

Well if you feel she's worth it, let it ride out but have an end goal in mind

 

[Marc Spector]

Theres "getting to know someone"

and theres "waiting"

"Waiting" is horseshyt. Don't be stuck in limbo because somebody can't resolve their internal/external conflicts.

 

[badtguy]

Dear Op,
If you really have hoes you have no problem waitin.

I can wait years to fukk a chick, why? Cause I have chicks willing to fukk anytime fr fr. When you juggle different women who ever satisfies your need at the moment is the most important.

Virgin or Goodgirl - that's my best friend someone I would marry but she too innocent to corrupt
Thot- that's my down ass chick willing to fukk
Main - she basically cook and fukk, go out with
Potential chicks - usually the chicks you keep in your phone as "friends" if your key players fukk up. You hit them from time to time just to let them know they COULD be in your main line up.

Kindregards,
Badtguy
Contact coli.com

 

[Stuntone]

When a decent single woman likes you and think you would be a great man for her, she isn't going to play around with locking u down. Women aren't dumb, they know a good man, sometimes the issue is if you fit in their lives because current baggage (on and off ex's)


Now some of this loose type women will have you waiting around, while she's juggling other men trying to benefit from you all.

 

[DallasTxRep]

 

[Stuntone]

Dear Op,
If you really have hoes you have no problem waitin.

I can wait years to fukk a chick, why? Cause I have chicks willing to fukk anytime fr fr. When you juggle different women who ever satisfies your need at the moment is the most important.

Virgin or Goodgirl - that's my best friend someone I would marry but she too innocent to corrupt
Thot- that's my down ass chick willing to fukk
Main - she basically cook and fukk, go out with
Potential chicks - usually the chicks you keep in your phone as "friends" if your key players fukk up. You hit them from time to time just to let them know they COULD be in your main line up.

Kindregards,
Badtguy
Contact coli.com

You sound like me last year, except for waiting years. You're probably exaggerating, but I can't do it.

You right on mostly everything you state, until you meet a real one. Out of all those chicks, you probably don't have one you really really feeling. I was just like you, player for life. The chicks i really like wasn't acting right or I didn't trust.

My new girl has come into my life and flipped me upside down. Cooks, cleans, washes my clothes, don't complain, very sweet, doesnt nag. I'll laying in her bed right now as I type this while she at work. She does it all. I don't have time to even think about messing around if i wanted to.

I use to ripping and running, going out all the time. Now if my girl is like, stay home with me tonight. I can't turn her down. She's so sweet and nice it's hard to tell her no. You're going to find one that's going to shake your playa shyt.