Lmao! On a forum of women haters ur damned if u do damned if u dont.
Regardless I don't mind talking about stuff like this because it's just not a big deal to me.
I dunno. I wasn't raised in a sexually repressed family. We're pretty open about shyt which is why I talk about it matter of factly. Ironically I turned out to be pretty sexually conservative due to my upbringing. Because my family gave us a comfortable, stress free, judgement free zone to discuss sex, I never felt any shame or taboo around it. Which means i never felt the need to have 100 dycks in me to "rebel" against daddy.
Like everything else i just used pragmatism. I also have a good knowledge of myself and what I want which helps me say "no fukk you" to dudes who tried to pressure me into doing shyt I didn't want to do.
So I'm actually quite the perv and very passionate, but the idea of a random stranger fukking me without an emotional connection makes my clit shrivel and I feel bad for any chick that settles on that when I can literally soak sheet with my finger alone.
So i don't do casual sex. I've only had one sexual partner and that's the man I'm currently living with. I've dated a LOT but dating to me means getting to know someone. Not swallowing random nut of somebody I've only known for a few weeks.
For me sex and love go hand in hand. I can't do one without the other. That's just how I'm built. And I don't fall in love easily so I just haven't fukked a bunch of people. No judgement to those who have. Sex is natural and healthy as long as you take precautions.
Call me what you want. Boring, ugly, fat. Whatever. Lol! For me I've always made decisions in my life based on what will be best for me not based on other people's opinions and that has given me a good life. So there u have it!