How many divorces is a red flag for you in dating?

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Long story short, somebody I know told me she had 5 divorces :dwillhuh: and it got to me thinking. What is the magic number for you that is a clear red flag in dating. Is it 3? 4? 5? Maybe more. Whats your number?
 

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I hope to never be dating again, but anything above 1 would be a little concerning to me.

I'd need to know the reasons though to get the full picture. A woman with 2 divorces - but the exes were beaters and/or cheaters - would be less of a flag to me than a woman with 1 divorce but she initiated it over some Tia Mowry therapy babble.
 

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Did you dive into why she was divorced
Did she cook
Did she clean
Did she work at the time
Is she a hot headed tempered person
Does she listen
Is she good or bad with money
Is she good in her decision making
Is she good in bed
Does she take care of herself , smell nice , in shape , take regular showers
Is she a caring person
Is she good with kids
 

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Did you dive into why she was divorced
Did she cook
Did she clean
Did she work at the time
Is she a hot headed tempered person
Does she listen
Is she good or bad with money
Is she good in her decision making
Is she good in bed
Does she take care of herself , smell nice , in shape , take regular showers
Is she a caring person
Is she good with kids
Naw I didnt dive into it. I know she had some addiction issues (OD'ED twice). I wonder if that played a part
 
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