How many guys here still insist on paying for the first date? Article defending this inside.

[FeloniousMonk]

Your homies invite you out on dinner dates?

I see what you trying to do there

Im speaking on the perspective of generosity when extending a invite...male or female, family member, friend or stranger..

 

[Jahmal]

I see what you trying to do there

Im speaking on the perspective of generosity when extending a invite...male or female, family member, friend or stranger..

Homie: Yo what you getting into for the championship football game tonight?
Me: Not sure yet whats good
Homie: Me and some ppl are hittin up XYZ bar. Come Thru
Me: Aite bet

I would never expect my homie to pay for me even through he invited me out to chill with his ppl. We all pay our own bill. Whenever I go out with my boyz we will get our own bill.

I hate the whole notion that "whoever invites has to pay" because women rarely ever invite. They suggest.

Woman: Hey what you are you doing tonight?
Me: Chillin whats good
Woman: Have you eaten yet?
Me: No
Woman: Well I'm in your area right now. We should go out to Atlantic Station and get some food.
Me: Cool. Since you are inviting me out , you're covering the bill right?
Woman: No I didnt invite =) . I just made a suggestion. Anyways Gentlemen should always pay the bill. Didnt your Mother teach you that?

You see how that works. Women always expect the guy to pay because thats what gentlemen are supposed to do smh.