How many kids are too many for a married couple?

[valet]

I saw a fb post where a woman was upset that people criticized her that had a 5th child. She's married but people was coming at her
"How many yall gonna have? 5 kids
That's crazy!" How many of yall feel the same? Please no ducktales because some of yall feel the same way when you see somebody with alot kids. Like it's a sin to have alot kids. So tall who feel that way what should be the minimum?

 

[jdubnyce]

All depends on if you have the financial means to support, and time to invest in their upbringing (guidance, direction, etc)

Iranian family in my neighborhood has 7 kids. Dad told me he has to make weekly costco runs they're making it work (it would seem as an outsider looking in)
Not sure if you can quantify

 

[skylove4]

In this day and age 5 kids is way to many . Yes you may be able to afford them now but your life could change for the worst in an instance and now the kids are hurting

 

[Sterling Archer]

As many, as you can afford and sustain to give a healthy and promising upbringing.

 

[voiture]

Finances determines that.
Number cause of divorce is finances.

 

[darealvelle]

Having big families used to be common back in the day. In the 50s,60,70s,80s. Not no more for obvious reasons. Cmon a lot your parents parents had multiple siblings.

 

[skyrunner1]

Never even had a thought in my mind to tell a married couple how many kids they should have.. thats some wild shyt to even think

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

A large part of the equation is the extent of your financial resources so it’s going to vary by family.

After that it’s a personal choice as to how you value your time.

I personally can’t imagine spending every waking moment of my life raising multiple kids. Even with the help of nannies and tutors, which I will have for my kid(s), it’s a huge commitment.

The idea of 5 kids sounds like pure chaos. Never have a moment of peace to yourself but people have different values.

 

[Peak]

I wouldn't go for for more than 3. To even have 3 you should be somewhat set financially.

 

[Gdp77]

Damn 2 is two too many at times for me. Can't imagine having more.

 

[42 Monks]

At this point, people need to actually describe what a quality upbringing is it is NOT the same household to household. Kids ain't seen a homecooked meal in weeks but talking about "I give my child the world" and shyt.

 

[Matt504]

Anything over two

 

[Killer Instinct]

Depends entirely upon your finances and tolerance. We have three and have agreed we'll be giving #4 a shot in a couple of years since we both want a boy. She's going to be tapped out afterwards, though. Finances are one thing. Pregnancy is another.

 

[Family Lives Matter]

All depends on financials and set up this cut and dry pick a number shyt is silly.

Money isn't everything a poor set of parents that nurture and teach there child is more important than a millionaire couple but vice versa I wouldn't want to be born into a family where the stress of putting food on the table hangs over everything on a day to day basis.


Coli answer though will be as long as you got paper have a million or it depends if it's a PAWG or not on how many you should have

 

[BuckFilly]

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