How many times i gotta say it, do not wife up single mothers.

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:francis: Reddit stay with that piff :wow:

If you have been following my journey/story you will know what I have been going through with my girlfriend of 2 years who is a single mother. She has recently been staying "late" at work, doing lots of overtime and company "functions" after work and it wasn't a problem the first few months but now its literally every week that there is some type of work outting she must attend. Her son's father moved back to california for "work" reasons as she puts it and they have been seeing alot of each other lately. I have done my best to be as supportive as possible throughout this whole thing, I take her over to his house so she can spend time with him and her son, i make sure I watch her son and his daughter (from another relationship) so they can do what they like to call "parent duties" . This worked out fine for all of us for about 4 months but now she is saying she needs to spend the night at his house on Fridays because she doesn't trust him with their son, how can you not trust him? We have gotten into so many arguments because of this but she refuses to acknowledge why i wouldn't want her sleeping at her childs fathers house. Well, last Friday she left our home at 7pm to go to his house with their son, about an hour later i call her just to check on her and her phone is going straight to voice mail so I get worried. I called again and nothing so at this point I start calling her family and her mother told me that she dropped her son off at her house an hour ago. Well now im furious because I hate being lied to, so I head over to her childs fathers home and her car is parked in his driver way, I rind the doorbell for literally 5 minutes and get no answer so I walk around the side of the house and go through the backyard gate and thats when i hear it, moaning, my stomach drops to the floor, I look through the window and they are going at it on the floor next to the bed. I literally start screaming at them both and a big argument ensues..I break up with her after 20 minutes of back and fourth arguing and leave. I drive to a macdonalds parking lot and literally burst into tears because im scrolling through her and mine pictures in my phone. I felt bad that i yelled at her and wanted to apologize for cursing at her so i head back to his home and ring the doorbell...AGAIN, no response so i go back to the side of the house and they are fukkING AGAIN and this time they refuse to stop when i start yelling at them, this A-HOLE threatens to shoot me if i dont leave and at that point i left because my life is worth more than some whore. Im in pieces but I will get through this.
 

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I take her over to his house so she can spend time with him and her son, i make sure I watch her son and his daughter (from another relationship) so they can do what they like to call "parent duties" .
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This shyt has to be fake man smh. Ain’t no way a normal functioning man can be this cucked out. This lame is a glorified nanny at this point.:mjlol:
 

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This shyt has to be fake man smh. Ain’t no way a normal functioning man can be this cucked out. This lame is a glorified nanny at this point.:mjlol:
breh, read the dead bedroom subreddit, white people are insane...creh's be talking about how they are ashamed of themselves for taking peeks at their wifes breast while they are in the shower...betas all over that site.
 

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:dwillhuh: this dude cant be real!?!? after all of that he went to the house saw them fukking and tried to stop them, can't take the hint the woman just used you and is a whore???
 

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Reference a made up story on the internet about getting cheated on to justify not dating women with children, Coli Brehs.


It would make more sense to just say "personal preference" or "id like my own family" as valid reasons for not wanting a single mom. Her cheating has nothing to do with her having crumb snatchers.
 

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You get what you allow. Single mother really has nothing to do with this. Some women test boundaries and when you keep letting them cross yours it will turn into blatant disrespect and possible eventual harm. I don't know what drives it exactly, but it's definitely a thing.

I learned from experience.
 

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Breh this can’t be real.

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As I’m reading the story I’m thinking to myself, he’s dropping his old lady off at her child’s father’s house to get her back blown out.

If this story is true which I have my doubts about dude was an idiot.

To go cry in the parking lot after catching them cheating and then come back and she still getting her back blown out by said man is truly diabolical work.

:ohhh::francis::mjlol:
 
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