How much do you value Financial Responsibility when choosing a partner?

[WesCrook]

Is it a deal-breaker or do you take your lumps and say: "Well, this is how she is"

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I value it over looks. I absolutely would not date an over materialistic show off seriously with bad spending habits.
The type of woman I would marry would value spending money on a house over spending a grotesque amount on a wedding and wedding ring.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

#1 attraction

#2 her financial responsibility/ Career

College Degree or 5+ year work experience. And no kids

I’m a 32 year old educated black man. If she can’t come with that she can kick rocks.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

EXTREMELY

I'm looking for a life partner. If we're not on the same page in terms of lifestyle, then she's bushed. When I used to work retail, there were so many women who had to hurry home to hide stuff from their husbands. We're not going into debt because she wants to buy shoes. M

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Only Simps would take a woman who isn't financially responsible.

What ever debt she has, you're responsible for once y'all get married. If she needs a new car loan, $40k student loan, you're cosigning. That's not mentioning if she's bougie, if she's bougie it's gone be hell. Unnecessarily big house, expensive cars, etc. And if y 'all get divorce you're paying for everything because your name is on everything.

I believe with the right chick you can live a very comfortable life. Put y'all money together and you don't have to work a sorry ass 9-5.

 

[Silkk]

Man, you'd be a fukking idiot to get tied up with a financially irresponsible woman.


Imagine getting one pregnant

 

[YamakaSmacker]

It’s right there with no kids h

 

[Real]

Im too successful to date chicks that get paid by the hour...

 

[Heafcliffe]

definite deal breaker. up there with trust, communication.

 

[Phitz]

I don't make hard/fast rules in regards to money, because all these deal breakers go out the door when people feel they have a strong connection/compatibility.

within reason...

 

[Gold]

Its probably 2nd.or 3rd.most important. Alot of arguments revolve around finances. I dont want that life

 

[Rawtid]

It's in the top 3 for sure.

 

[Rawtid]

Im too successful to date chicks that get paid by the hour...

What if it's $55/hr?

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

NO. 1 PRIORITY....


i done had my share of BAD...but BROKE byatches.......

cause i valued looks and good puzzy over financial stability...

my baby mother was a good example of that...

NEVER AGAIN

it's too much of a burden and strain on a relationship when a byatch is in DEBT or you gotta cover most of the BILLS

cause this broad can't manage her money right....

and i really hate when these same broke azz hoes will have an opinion on everything you do or say ..yet they can't ,ale good financial decisions...

like my ex...i seen her griping on her timeline about how she is hoping for a financial blessing in 2019.....

yet this was the same "im educated..independent i got this" type of byatch

that thought she could do it without me or my advice and decide to break up with me while pursuing a so called econominc opportunity in atlanta but is now struggling....

and i just had to say it..i couldn't contain myself so i posted back to her via my trolling facebook page which she doesn't realize is really me...



"she knows psychology...socialogy and biology..but CAN'T MASTER THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF OUR ECONOMY"

she blocked me

 

[Bubba T]

Considering money is the number one reason why people divorce, it should be much higher on peoples list