How often do yall check up on ex's?

[The_Sheff]

And i dont mean check up as in give them a call or seeing if you can smash, i mean just looking and seeing what they up to in general.

You know we all have that one that got away, well I try to check and see whats going on with her like once a year. We broke up 7 years ago and for the past 7 i been looking to see if some other nikka done wifed her up or she had any kids and every year i see that last name stay the same with no kids im like cause low key if some other nikka got her id befor real. Side note, its really damn hard to keep up with her cause really she just a home body that lives in the middle of nowhere who dont do shyt but go to work, go home, and go to her parents house. She has no facebook, twitter, instagram.....none of that shyt. I just ran my yearly googles on her and now I dont know if I dodged a bullet or i was the nikka to put her off from men. Chick 36 (she older than me, thats kinda the reason i was hesitant on locking her down back in the day) with no man, no kids, babysitting every weekend, with 2 dogs and a cat. I think i turned her into an old cat lady.

 

[Express]

an hour ago :cryfam:

 

[the cool]

I peep through their bedroom window every night

 

[scarlxrd]

I got rid of all my social media accounts just so I couldn't do it because I'm way too inquisitive to not look.

Ignorance is bliss, breh. It's better to just not know.

 

[Paradise]

OP...


I never keep up with him. I don't care what he is up to... but I can't say the same for him.

 

[MillionMills]

I check the IG every few days, but it's private

 

[NoMorePie]

Haven't checked to see what slut-ish thing she's been up to since November.

I won't be surprised if that bytch is pregnant already. No self-control.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Strangely enough, my ex from high-school (20 years ago) just hit me up last weekend. Asked me if I wanted to go hiking when she flies back into town. I'm not sure if it was an invitation to smash or not but it was definitely weird cause we literally haven't talked since that day I broke up with her before going off to college.

Luckily, I don't live in that state anymore. She's married anyway.

 

[Express]

@The_Sheff
why u not with her bro? age?

 

[Express]

Strangely enough, my ex from high-school (20 years ago) just hit me up last weekend. Asked me if I wanted to go hiking when she flies back into town. I'm not sure if it was an invitation to smash or not but it was definitely weird cause we literally haven't talked since that day I broke up with her before going off to college.

Luckily, I don't live in that state anymore. She's married anyway.

wtf

 

[BaldingSoHard]

wtf

Yea it was hyper-random. She apparently got my number from my best friend who she's facebook friends with. She wasn't overt or sexual with it or anything, so again I'm not sure if it was an invitation to smash or not.

 

[Poitier]

Just to make sure she is failing without me

 

[BaggerofTea]

Never, there is a reason why they are "exs"

 

[intruder]

Facebook. Via phone at least once a year.

It never hurts to send a "happy Birthday" text every now and again. Trust me with women, little things like this go a long way.
My philosophy: NEVER-BURN-BRIDGES

I am on good/speaking terms with pretty much every woman ive ever dated or fukked. I can only think of two who dont speak to me. One stole my money (over $2300) and disappeared . The other said she didnt wanna be my booty call and since i didnt wanna "date" her she asked that i dont contact anymore because she feels while there is no animosity between us, being friends is a slippery slope for us to keep fukking and shes trying to "do better".

Again, if you stay on a woman's good side she'll likely never shut the door on you completely.

 

[JerkPork]

Strangely enough, my ex from high-school (20 years ago) just hit me up last weekend. Asked me if I wanted to go hiking when she flies back into town. I'm not sure if it was an invitation to smash or not but it was definitely weird cause we literally haven't talked since that day I broke up with her before going off to college.

Luckily, I don't live in that state anymore. She's married anyway.

sound like she tryna murder you.