I don't attract it, but some of my closest friends do. my girl always jokes "damn you be with the shooters". Some of them gravitate toward it, so I've always been around it.
One of my lil bros is doing 50 for a murder that he could have just sat home and avoided. But certain nikkas walk toward the fire instead of avoiding it. He felt he was justified in his shooting, but the jury didn't feel the same way.