How Some Black Mom’s Treat Their Sons vs. How They Treat Their Daughters

[KyokushinKarateMan]

It explains the hyper-emotional state of many of the fatherless brehs amongst us.

They’re used to being coddled.
Used to getting their own way.
And when they don’t get their way, they’re used to throwing tantrums until they do get their own way.

In adulthood this manifests as the breh who is quick to feel “disrespected” by the slightest of grievances. The breh who shouts things like “I’m a grown ass man!” The breh who throws his woman’s cell phone against walls in fits of rage.. and so on.

 

[Worthless Loser]

"The problem in the world today is we love our boys and we raise our girls. We raise them to be strong and sometimes we take care not to hurt men. And I think we pay for that a little bit," she said. "And that’s a 'we' thing because we’re raising them."

Obama then posed the question asking whether or not we are coddling young men too much "so they feel entitled and a little self-righteous sometimes?" And she added, "But that’s kind of on us too as women and mothers as we nurture men and we push girls to be perfect."

The only part that's missing is that some women see their daughters as competition by the time they teenagers so that can put a strain on their relationship.

 

[MaxPain]

OP u 39 in a karate class.

U Taebo ho.

 

[Ol’Otis]

this thread is going places

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

The only part that's missing is that some women see their daughters as competition by the time they teenagers so that can put a strain on their relationship.

That sh*t is something to see in real life breh. Sad.

 

[ignorethis]

This thread is a rehash, yea we know this.

The only thing it's annoying is when women complain about "nikkas not being men" but they need to focus on the guys they choose, but most of the time the only male-female dynamic those nikkas have ever known is a woman taking care of a man.

And most of the time the women complaining are far from "traditional" women, just keep tricking on your bum and leave us alone

 

[CarmelBarbie]

OP u 39 in a karate class.

U Taebo ho.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

OP u 39 in a karate class.

U Taebo ho.

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Lol

 

[Inokja]

You guys act like moms never beat their sons or something. At the same time I understand the specific context of "coddling" sons and/or general double standards since we see similar discussion in other cultures. This is more of a general conversation.

 

[Nikki_04]

I don't have any brothers, but I saw the results of this in relation to my mother and her siblings. The boys never amounted to much...one never left the home and doesn't even know how to open a bank account, nor did he ever work a real job. The other is an angry woman beater that never is accountable for his actions. My grandmother coddled them while she was strict on my mom...my mom was the success story out of them all.

My only thing is that once you become an adult and grow as a person, it becomes your job to seek to be better. That's the LEAST you can do as a person is try to be a better person, but some of these individuals just coast through life and stay mentally adolescent in an adult world.

 

[ignorethis]

You guys act like moms never beat their sons or something. At the same time I understand the specific context of "coddling" sons since we see similar discussion in other cultures

Lol we know those mom whooping aren't the same as dad beatings

 

[BXKingPin82]

My mother and my sister at least once a month have some sort of issue with each other.



Mom got mad cause sis didnt bring back her Tupperware bowl.
Which to me IS a pretty serious offense.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Stay on the coli all day making dumb threads and wonder why u 54, making 36k a year, trying to join the army cuz you're too p*ssy to murk yourself

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Can’t relate. My mom was my best friend. My sisters and I loved her so much. She was hard on my brother because she wanted him to be a man. None of my friends had these issues either. I actually know no one, in all 32 years of my life, where this happened. I do know it happens but how common it is I guess it all depends on the environment you grew up in.

My son is spoiled. But if I had a daughter she would be spoiled too. Just the way I am. I love the kids.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

This is a single mom issue, not just a black mom issue.

And a lot of single moms with sons who look like their fathers are emotionally abusive out of resentment of seeing the man’s face everyday.

Of course, pregnancy is 100% preventable.