How To Ask Your Lady To Attend A Swinger Party?

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I went ahead and rsvp to attend one while we're out of town and been invited. I just want to see what goes on and possibly find a sexy chick for her to play with. That's all. Thing is I do not want to ask then she gives me grief and it fukks up our entire vibe. How would you go about it? Hurry limited time on here.
 

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Sheeit nicca, surprise her. Broads LOVE surprises and spontenaity!

Tell her y'all goin' over the homies' house for dinner and a movie.
In the core on the way over, say:


"...oh yeah, by "dinner" I mean we gon' be eatin' something...and by "movie" I mean we gon' be tapin' it."
 

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It depends. Have ya'll talked about the possibilities of going one day? Communicating about this early would have saved you trouble; if ya'll have talked about it in some form, bring it up, check her response, and go from there. If ya'll haven't, don't spring it up on her; it could fukk your world up seriously; bringing in other people in a relationship is something ya'll need to be clear on and on the same page breh; good luck
 

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Sheeit nicca, surprise her. Broads LOVE surprises and spontenaity!

Tell her y'all goin' over the homies' house for dinner and a movie.
In the core on the way over, say:


"...oh yeah, by "dinner" I mean we gon' be eatin' something...and by "movie" I mean we gon' be tapin' it."
Considered trying to fabricate something and "surprise" her.
 

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breh...unless your lady has let it known that shes into girls...best believe she gonna think you just out to smash something new....

ask her and your relationship is over

think real-life is a porn movie brehs....
She's into girls and talked about it on numerous occasions she just flakes when I try to make it happen. I want to ask her and she says cool then go and if we both aren't comfortable then we'll clear it to bar or something.
 

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It depends. Have ya'll talked about the possibilities of going one day? Communicating about this early would have saved you trouble; if ya'll have talked about it in some form, bring it up, check her response, and go from there. If ya'll haven't, don't spring it up on her; it could fukk your world up seriously; bringing in other people in a relationship is something ya'll need to be clear on and on the same page breh; good luck
We've talked but this would be completely random but there is no subtle way going about this unless a woman is initiating it. lol
 
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We've talked but this would be completely random but there is subtle way going about this unless a woman is initiating it. lol

if you've talked about it, then go ahead and bring it up; don't tell her you reserved a spot until she gives you a signal that she's down; if she's uncomfortable, tell her you wanna talk about it more and skip this party unless you going alone; find another one to go to with her in the fuiture
 
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