How to keep the connection with a girl when there really is none?

[El_Mero_Mero]

Alright, so in January I banged this girl who was visiting NYC for a few days. You can say I was the last person she was with in NYC (she is kinda slutty, I mean, its outwardly visible once you get to know her, so I don't know if she had any other dikks while here.). I say that to say that I'm not looking to her for no kind of exclusive commitment. Anyway, we spent like 3 days together and then she leaves.

I became FB friends w/ her after she left. Now she hits me up every so often and I hit her up too, but we have absolutely NOTHING to talk about. I don't want to lose the connection completely though, because that would probably mess with my plans to bang her again sometime before 2014. But, I will come off as a sucker if I'm just shooting her random FB chat messages about nothing. That would show I got nothing better to do with my time.

The worst thing is that one of the only interesting things I can do with her online is flirt. I kinda want to stop doing this (but then again not lose the connection completely), because its a small world because of this damn internet, and if this chick ever gets really mad at me, and finds my wifey, it won't be good for me

What do y'all suggest to keep the good connection? Plus, she give top better than my wifey (that's about it though).

 

[H@LLOW]

is like magic

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

women out number us 4 to 1. Are you that desperate that you need to hold on. Are you that desperate that you can't see the situation for what it is? If you handled your business, when she's ready for the dikk she will look for you. The fukk you trying to keep a "connection"?



boy I tell ya,, youngins these days.

 

[Sweet James]

Alright, so in January I banged this girl who was visiting NYC for a few days. You can say I was the last person she was with in NYC (she is kinda slutty, I mean, its outwardly visible once you get to know her, so I don't know if she had any other dikks while here.). I say that to say that I'm not looking to her for no kind of exclusive commitment. Anyway, we spent like 3 days together and then she leaves.

I became FB friends w/ her after she left. Now she hits me up every so often and I hit her up too, but we have absolutely NOTHING to talk about. I don't want to lose the connection completely though, because that would probably mess with my plans to bang her again sometime before 2014. But, I will come off as a sucker if I'm just shooting her random FB chat messages about nothing. That would show I got nothing better to do with my time.

The worst thing is that one of the only interesting things I can do with her online is flirt. I kinda want to stop doing this (but then again not lose the connection completely), because its a small world because of this damn internet, and if this chick ever gets really mad at me, and finds my wifey, it won't be good for me

What do y'all suggest to keep the good connection? Plus, she give top better than my wifey (that's about it though).

What race are you, breh........

 

[Brofato]

If the relationship between you two is purely sexual then you don't need to keep a "connection". Just hit her up in 2014 with a little of that magic that worked before. Get in, dig in and get out, no need for useless convos in between if she already knows what's up.

 

[luckyse7enz]

women out number us 4 to 1. Are you that desperate that you need to hold on. Are you that desperate that you can't see the situation for what it is? If you handled your business, when she's ready for the dikk she will look for you. The fukk you trying to keep a "connection"?



boy I tell ya,, youngins these days.

This.

By fukking her, you're already "familiar dikk" status. Chicks'll take familiar dikk over new random dikk anytime. If she comes back to NYC and you really put it down, she'll float you a "Hey stranger."

No need to be a creep, young'n. One of the best (and most underrated) quality about sluts is the minimal upkeep needed when it comes to communication. When it's time, they know what it is.

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

Y'all are mostly, right. Or is that, most of y'all are right. Especially, EVF, about seeing the situation for what it really is. I handled my business with this chick in the bedroom, but I might not see her for like 5-6 months at the earliest, or I may never see her again (but I like knowing that I can). She's younger than me, by like 4 or 5 years.

I'm no youngin', its just that I've been in the "committed relationship" game for a LONG time and ain't really played the field in a while.

Plus, I'm Latino, so even though this girl is being shared, I fall into the old habit of getting possessive.

I know all about the bang them once, you can bang them the rest of your life thing. Like I said though, I guess I would just feel weird after having banged her last month, then cutting off all communication with her for like 6 months, and then only hitting her up again when I'm ready to bang again.

 

[kevm3]

man if your wifey is really top notch, you're going to mess your thing up for a broad you can't stand beyond whatever time it takes you to jump in and out of her womb. If you want to let your wallet fall out of your pocket and lose it while picking up a penny, that's going to be on you.

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Y'all are mostly, right. Or is that, most of y'all are right. Especially, EVF, about seeing the situation for what it really is. I handled my business with this chick in the bedroom, but I might not see her for like 5-6 months at the earliest, or I may never see her again (but I like knowing that I can). She's younger than me, by like 4 or 5 years.

I'm no youngin', its just that I've been in the "committed relationship" game for a LONG time and ain't really played the field in a while.

Plus, I'm Latino, so even though this girl is being shared, I fall into the old habit of getting possessive.

I know all about the bang them once, you can bang them the rest of your life thing. Like I said though, I guess I would just feel weird after having banged her last month, then cutting off all communication with her for like 6 months, and then only hitting her up again when I'm ready to bang again.

You gonna end up sending her mixed messages....

here breh this should help.

she would get the smash and dash package.

 

[AllHolosEve]

man if your wifey is really top notch, you're going to mess your thing up for a broad you can't stand beyond whatever time it takes you to jump in and out of her womb. If you want to let your wallet fall out of your pocket and lose it while picking up a penny, that's going to be on you.

thats good, dont recall hear!n that one before, props....

 

[karim]

Plus, I'm Latino, so even though this girl is being shared, I fall into the old habit of getting possessive.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

This.

By fukking her, you're already "familiar dikk" status. Chicks'll take familiar dikk over new random dikk anytime. If she comes back to NYC and you really put it down, she'll float you a "Hey stranger."

No need to be a creep, young'n. One of the best (and most underrated) quality about sluts is the minimal upkeep needed when it comes to communication. When it's time, they know what it is.

#TruthBomb

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

you should just be honest in your messages. no need to try to find out more about her if you don't really care about her or if you're just trying to fukk. if you just want to fukk then you should make that obvious through the messages rather than try to seem like you want to get to know her. half the time it doesn't even matter what you send to women through facebook. as long as you've set up plans to meet again and you talk every now and again, you'll see her again, and you'll probably fukk too. i deal with this sort of thing on the regular since most of the women i meet i only know for a few days so i'm almost left with no other options except facebook or calling them if they live in the country (which is even more pointless if i don't plan on seeing them any time soon).

but you have a girlfriend too. you shouldn't be trying to maintain a connection to some random ho (you called her that earlier in your post, remember that). the only time i worry about keeping hoes around is if i don't have anyone, not if i do...

 

[DonRe]

Luckyseven hit it on the head. Jumpoffs know what's up most of the time. The more ya get to know each other the worst it will become so cut that small informative talk.

Keep the flirting shyt going but sparingly. Just so your enough in the consciousness that she knows when or if she comes back you'll be on her mind. And when she does touch down don't do relationship shyt: fukk, eat, rinse, repeat nothing more.

 

[360dagod]

she's not wifey,she's your suga duga...

treat her as such