How to play the date game with no cash?

[El_Mero_Mero]

So, at the job I was working outdoors, this girl came by and saw me last week, we had a friendly conversation, but there were no indicators of interest (no disinterest either though). Today she saw me again and she remembered my face and we had another tiny conversation. She had to run to work, but she came back during her lunch, she must've misunderstood me and thought that we would go for lunch together, but I was busy at my job, so she went on her way, I wrote down my number though and she said she'd look for me tomorrow.

I HAVE NO MONEY though. I am waiting on checks to come in. I am broke in my wallet and in my bank account (due to recent heavy expenses), so if she comes back tomorrow and asks me to go to lunch with her, should I just opt of lunch, keep working, and tell her to bring me something to eat, OR should I scrounge up some bucks and hope to be headed somewhere with her for the cheapest option possible (I'm in NYC), OR should I just tell her I have no money?

I have BEEN out of the game, and I already have a serious long-term girlfriend that I live with, so I don't want to waste my time if it won't lead to anything quick. If she asks about my relationship, I'll tell her I have a girl but we are experiencing problems. What would you guys do?

I know you'll probably say to get my finances up and get my confidence up, but I don't have patience for that now, and we've already met, you know.

 

[Taadow]

So, at the job I was working outdoors, this girl came by and saw me last week, we had a friendly conversation, but there were no indicators of interest (no disinterest either though). Today she saw me again and she remembered my face and we had another tiny conversation. She had to run to work, but she came back during her lunch, she must've misunderstood me and thought that we would go for lunch together, but I was busy at my job, so she went on her way, I wrote down my number though and she said she'd look for me tomorrow.

I HAVE NO MONEY though. I am waiting on checks to come in. I am broke in my wallet and in my bank account (due to recent heavy expenses), so if she comes back tomorrow and asks me to go to lunch with her, should I just opt of lunch, keep working, and tell her to bring me something to eat, OR should I scrounge up some bucks and hope to be headed somewhere with her for the cheapest option possible (I'm in NYC), OR should I just tell her I have no money?

I have BEEN out of the game, and I already have a serious long-term girlfriend that I live with, so I don't want to waste my time if it won't lead to anything quick. If she asks about my relationship, I'll tell her I have a girl but we are experiencing problems. What would you guys do?

I know you'll probably say to get my finances up and get my confidence up, but I don't have patience for that now, and we've already met, you know.

Bro...look at the bolded, are you serious rhett na?

Stand-Up Nicca answer: Cuzz...don't be playing with this broads' feelings like that. When you see her next,
tell her you don't wanna give her the wrong idea or lead her on because you got a situation.









Triflin' Nicca answer: Sheeit nicca - get yer brizzoad to let you hold $10 for a "business lunch" and go get
some tater skins with the chick...

 

[Bobby Reds]

If you got no money then tell her that your gonna go over to her place in the evening after work to chill/watch a film (fukk her)

You can just tell her your money's kind of low right now. Most girls are not gonna trip about that.

Depends on how old you are, and how old she is though.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

You live with your girl. The only thing I would say is get your money up and get your own place. Because if you had your own money and place, you would not be asking this question.

because having your own bread and place you can make your own decisions, living with your chick; to me you aready know that you would get kicked out, Iif you got caught. Unless you control your chick.

I know plenty homies that fukk bytches with no bread and no place to lay there head.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

So, at the job I was working outdoors, this girl came by and saw me last week, we had a friendly conversation, but there were no indicators of interest (no disinterest either though). Today she saw me again and she remembered my face and we had another tiny conversation. She had to run to work, but she came back during her lunch, she must've misunderstood me and thought that we would go for lunch together, but I was busy at my job, so she went on her way, I wrote down my number though and she said she'd look for me tomorrow.

I HAVE NO MONEY though. I am waiting on checks to come in. I am broke in my wallet and in my bank account (due to recent heavy expenses), so if she comes back tomorrow and asks me to go to lunch with her, should I just opt of lunch, keep working, and tell her to bring me something to eat, OR should I scrounge up some bucks and hope to be headed somewhere with her for the cheapest option possible (I'm in NYC), OR should I just tell her I have no money?

I have BEEN out of the game, and I already have a serious long-term girlfriend that I live with, so I don't want to waste my time if it won't lead to anything quick. If she asks about my relationship, I'll tell her I have a girl but we are experiencing problems. What would you guys do?

I know you'll probably say to get my finances up and get my confidence up, but I don't have patience for that now, and we've already met, you know.

What I would do...

Tell her you have no money. Tell her you have a girl, and see if you can pull her anyway off the strength of your gravitas. I sometimes like to challenge myself in such ways just to see if I am as capable as I like to think I am. Then again, I'm ridiculously handsome, and the type of dude who can use the word "gravitas" in a conversation without it sounding pretentious so...

 

[The 2020 New Member]

What do you even want out of this situation?

 

[kevin arnold]

Story is filled with all types of struggle. My goodness

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

He did have 8 bucks though.

 

[BigGucciNoah]

How do you have no money breh

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Also, after you tell her you have a girl, she's going to ask you why you gave her your # in the first place.

You need to pause for like 2 seconds, then tell her, "My girlfriend is a good woman. I care about her a lot, but.... [another pause as though you're searching for the words] it's just been a long time since I've felt drawn to someone."

As you say the word 'drawn', gesture with your hands as Sisko is doing below.

 

[L&HH]

Breh you're a brokeboi who's living off another woman?

Count your blessings nikka, you have no room to be cheating.

I can't say the same about your shawty though

 

[Bankroll.org]

try to have a sidechick with no cash brahs
try have a sidechick and want it quick and cant buy lunch brahs

bro you gotta get your money up before you get a sidechick...broke nikkas get busted quick...no lie

drop some cash.. show a good time... get it and bounce

 

[Thegospel]

The game is rigged. You gotta find the resources to crack the code on your own my dude.

 

[Guess Who]

I didn't read your post.

If you're broke you gonna either date fat women or attractive women with too many issues to deal with.

The one exception is if you're broke but on the path to success, then you'll most likely end up with a woman that is actually of strong virtue and character.

 

[Tunez]