How will you react when/if you find out your child is sexually active?

[Flash Thunderton]

I've seen and heard patents say they will take everything from their child, groud them until 18, whoop their ass everyday.


But, let's be honest here, a lot, A LOT, of people have sex before turning 18. In fact, most people who say shyt like that probably did.


I'd just sit down and talk to my kid about it, ask if they're being safe and all that. Buy my son done condoms and if male birth control is out but then I'll put him on that, same with my daughter. If she tells me she messed up I'd get her plan B.


I see no reason to overreact like some parents to with this.












But if my children have children

 

[KravenMorehead™]

 

[Sierra Mist]

If it's my boy. And wrap it up.

If it's my girl:

 

[DougFunnY]

I can handle my son telling me hes active. Me being a man as well, I can relate, and the last thing I'd want is my kids sneaking around, because thats when you REALLY have to worry. Thats why da talk is so vital. Not sure I can fathom my daughter telling me shes doin it. ima wanna murk something

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

girl: use protection, watch out for diseases, make sure he's a male of substance, hopefully you care about each other, & if you feel uncomfortable just say no

boy: use condoms, watch out for diseases, pull out, hopefully she's not that big of a hoe, & if she says no dont do anything *proceed to give him tips on improving his stroke*

 

[Flash Thunderton]

I can handle my son telling me hes active. Me being a man as well, I can relate, and the last thing I'd want is my kids sneaking around, because thats when you REALLY have to worry. Thats why da talk is so vital. Not sure I can fathom my daughter telling me shes doin it. ima wanna murk something

If it's my daughter I'm gonna need the meet the boy and his parents immediately

 

[CinnaSlim]

girl: use protection, watch out for diseases, make sure he's a male of substance, hopefully you care about each other, & if you feel uncomfortable just say no

boy: use condoms, watch out for diseases, pull out, hopefully she's not that big of a hoe, & if she says no dont do anything *proceed to give him tips on improving his stroke*

This.

I'll most likely be very open about sex, the responsibilities and consequences with my kids.

I'll probably advise my daughters the best way to lose their virginity is being on top so they have more control. I could also give them condoms and lube like the mom in the movie, The To-Do List lol.

 

[DougFunnY]

If it's my daughter I'm gonna need the meet the boy and his parents immediately

Word, Its only right. Gotta Let that Lil nikka know that you was once a young boi yaself, and he ain't getting over

 

[swimmingpools]

If I had kids (don't want any) I definitely wouldn't go the route of the double standard bullshyt that some are spewing in here.

 

[Freedman]

Since I'm only having sons, Imma be like use condoms lil nikka

 

[010101]

why would I care what my kids do?

all I can provide is an example of excellence
if they choose to go against the common sense I instilled in them
too bad so sad*

 

[KravenMorehead™]

I'll probably advise my daughters the best way to lose their virginity is being on top so they have more control.

She ain't ready for the rest I'm crackin up at this real shyt

 

[andre patton]

male or female, im getting both my kids on birth control as early as i can (that makes sense).

at the end of the day, the thought of my kids having sex is bothersome...but what really bothers me is the consequences that come from having sex too early so i'll try my best to mitigate those circumstances.

If I had kids (don't want any) I definitely wouldn't go the route of the double standard bullshyt that some are spewing in here.

doesnt there come a point where we stop crying about double standards and just face the realities of a situation? there are different consequences associated with underage sex with boys compared to girls. so obviously parents are going to approach sons differently than daughters.

 

[swimmingpools]

male or female, im getting both my kids on birth control as early as i can (that makes sense).

at the end of the day, the thought of my kids having sex is bothersome...but what really bothers me is the consequences that come from having sex too early so i'll try my best to mitigate those circumstances.



doesnt there come a point where we stop crying about double standards and just face the realities of a situation? there are different consequences associated with underage sex with boys compared to girls. so obviously parents are going to approach sons differently than daughters.

Im not crying about anything. Truth of the matter is children should be approached the same way about sex; in a serious manner. Dont salute your son, but scold your daughter for having sex.

 

[Blackking]

i have 4 sons.... I'm sure they'll work it out amongst themselves........ and I'll encourage condoms and pulling out. And not doing simp shyt.


my daughter..... we are open so far. So more than likely it will be a boyf she's dating that i already met before. I wont like it, but ...... i'd just wanna keep her count <6 before marriage. Hope she waits til marriage.