How's Your Judgment in Dating?

King Harlem

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I can't front. I have had bad judgment when it comes to women. Especially when I was younger, I've learned to look for different things now that I'm older.
But when I was younger, it always seemed like there were 2-3 women (for whatever reason) that were interested in me at around the same time, and I would always choose the one with the fattest ass. There have been some terrible fumbles on my part looking back (one situation that was comically bad).
 

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It's a learning & feeling out process but when I was a youngin I hangout with 2 older cats that were 10 years older than me who I kinda observed & peeped game from . You could lose your life , money , freedom , catch an STD & get a lot of grief messing with the wrong female . Chase money & not pussay my negroes . I personally have never dealt with more than one female at a time because it's a waste of time & Money
 

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OP..

I believe most ppl have experienced using bad judgment when picking partners. It comes with the territory..

Looking back,

All my experiences has taught me lessons. Now, I am glad to be in an healthy relationship with a woman who truely loves & values me as a person and man. One of her sons sent me a nice Born Day text this past weekend and I could tell that it was sincere and genuine.

In all, I believe in never compromising with respect! Also, be transparent with one's intentions & treat one how you would like to be treated. Those who are worthy will respond in kind. Those who don't will weed themselves out of your life.
 
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King Harlem

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OP..

I believe most ppl have experienced using bad judgment when picking partners. It comes with the territory..

Looking back,

All my experiences has taught me lessons. Now, I am glad to be in an healthy relationship with a woman who truely loves & values me as a person and man. One of her sons sent me s nice Born Day text this past weekend and I could tell that it was sincere and genuine.

In all, I believe in never compromising with respect! Also, be transparent with one's intentions & treat one how you would like to be treated. Those who are worthy will respond in kind. Those who don't will weed themselves out of your life.
Great advice.
 

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I heard someone say it’s foolish to think all your decisions will be the right one.

once you learn how to pivot any given situation is when you can truly enjoy life :blessed:
 

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Mostly terrible.

Had a couple good ones that I treated like ass. :guilty:
Had a couple bytches who treated me like ass. :dry:

But I don't think any of them were terrible people. Balance is hard to achieve in a relationship.
 
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