Husband is mad my character married a black man in a video game

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I’m feeling pretty overwhelmed and could really use some outside perspective. I’m a 36-year-old woman, and I’ve been married to my husband for several years. Recently, I’ve been playing a game called My Time at Sandrock, which I absolutely enjoy. In the game, I decided to marry a character who is a strong, confident Black man.
What I didn’t expect was how my husband would react. He’s become noticeably upset and distant since I did this. He’s expressed concern that I might want an open relationship or that I’m somehow attracted to the character in a way that could threaten our marriage. I honestly never intended for it to be a big deal; I saw the game as just a fun escape and didn’t see it as affecting our real life.
However, lately, his behavior has changed dramatically. He’s been cold, less affectionate, and even accusatory at times. It feels like this virtual marriage in the game has caused a lot of turmoil between us, and I’m worried about how this will affect our relationship moving forward.
Has anyone experienced something similar? How do I talk to him about this without making it worse? I really love him and want to work through this, but I also feel hurt and confused by his reaction.
Thanks for reading.

 

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“I’m a 36-year-old woman, and I’ve been married to my husband for several years. Recently, I’ve been playing a game called My Time at Sandrock, which I absolutely enjoy. In the game, I decided to marry a character who is a strong, confident Black man.”

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I hope this is fake because if not it’s the most hilariously cringe thing I’ve read in a minute lol
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
If a white guy or any other color finds out a woman dated a black man in her past
The scenario plays out the same way
Just because it’s a video game doesn’t make it less believable
The amount of exes/fwb I ran into with they “man” :russ:
Yeah them muthafukkas were beside themselves :mjlol:
I didn’t help with instigating them nikkas insecurities with how animated some were with me when “catching up” in front of him:mjgrin:
Ex wife new man don’t even know that p*ssy could be mines tomorrow if I really wanted it
Dude really tried to be on bullshyt when we met last month in LA
All I could do is :mjgrin:
 
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