I am married, but I really have no fukking idea how to be married

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To be with someone for better or worse "forever". To deal with all the bullshyt that's going to come with it, good and bad. It's easier just to run the fukk away. So I'm admitting to myself I'm just winging it.
 

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This is the moment when you fukked up.

No such thing as for worse and bad with people or divorce would not be business.
 

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To be with someone for better or worse "forever". To deal with all the bullshyt that's going to come with it, good and bad. It's easier just to run the fukk away. So I'm admitting to myself I'm just winging it.

breh..... you don't sound good
 

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this thread will be interesting

what do you feel you're gonna be missing by being married?
 

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cuz no one knows how to "be married" it's not like some enlightening switch gets turned on in your head the second you say "i do"

just take it day by day and try to make/keep eachother happy

i will tell you this, it's not easy and actual hard work to stay together... to be committed to eachother
 

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At least you acknowledge that there are some weaknesses in your character. Discuss it with your wife and ask what she does when she is fed up with your stankin ass but stays with you anyway...

I'm sure you could pick up a few pointers :troll:
 

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Hard to go into detail, but I don't care how perfect you think
At least you acknowledge that there are some weaknesses in your character. Discuss it with your wife and ask what she does when she is fed up with your stankin ass but stays with you anyway...

I'm sure you could pick up a few pointers :troll:
Jokes aside I be wondering the same thing.
 

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To be with someone for better or worse "forever". To deal with all the bullshyt that's going to come with it, good and bad. It's easier just to run the fukk away. So I'm admitting to myself I'm just winging it.


Every relationship is different so theres no one way to get it right my g. It's always going to be hard but the work you put in to make it work is what gives real value to what you have. In time you will get to know each other intuitively so you wont feel like so much like you're winging it. You wouldn't have got married if you didnt love her so the foundation is already there.

Communication is key though, you need to talk to your wife about it. This might be the worst place to ask for advice though alot of woman hate on here.
 

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Marriage is a learning experience. Nobody goes in knowing how to be a good husband/wife.

It takes time to learn, and you will surely have doubts.

Most important thing is to stay committed to the promises you made to yourself and your spouse.

Continue to learn selflessness and compromise, but also learn how to communicate your own wants and desires, so that your spouse can learn how to be the perfect partner for you.
 
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