"I Desire To Be A Husband And Father"

[Amo Husserl]

I be saying this but dudes say I don’t know what I’m talking about.


His exact equivalent is sitting in church, in a coffee shop, bookstore, etc. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Dudes say it’s women, but they overlook just as many nice girls as we do nice guys.

I think it's bad awareness of self developed after years of chasing women for self-gratification. They get lost in the sauce then cry when they lookin' like food.



Don't get me wrong, I been there. I accepted the type of women I attract and less than half are women I'm attracted to... so it's catered to me if I recognize it when it happens. Wouldn't go far to say it's fate, but issa algorithm based on the actions and intentions of a subjective state of mind.

I attract nice women, but they can't see I got edge so I gotta get a nice woman that can handle my edge. She gotta have layers that complement my layers.

It's layers to this shyt.
She out there somewhere... maybe.

 

[Wiseborn]

I be saying this but dudes say I don’t know what I’m talking about.


His exact equivalent is sitting in church, in a coffee shop, bookstore, etc. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Dudes say it’s women, but they overlook just as many nice girls as we do nice guys.

It’s not that you don’t have a point but the issue is Men Pursue women. If a Man pursues only IG baddies despite being a regular nikka he gets curved and remains bunless

Why do women fly into the DM’s of Chris Brown? Because Men pursue women. So Chris might holla depending on how he feels at the moment.

Everyone seen countless fat ducks out in the hood with children somebody hit that.

So a 35 year old dude should know the type of women who respond to him.

For example I generally do best with the younger daughters of bougie girls who don’t feel they fit in and want to hug a thug.

I’m not a thug but I kinda want into Black upper middle class culture and they kinda want out it’s an opposites attract thing.

As soon as they say Stop beating around the bush I know what’s up. What them mean is stop code switching and start talking like I do here on the Coli. They likea nikka telling it like it is and a chick who barely knows the basics of Black history is amazed when I do a deep dive on Black history to them.

I dated against this type but 9 times out of 10 this is the type I end up dealing with.

If I know the type of women that go for me then he should know the type that goes for him.

I think @Still Benefited said this nikka was 27 year old virgin so maybe his lack of sex drive didn’t lead him to holla at women to find the kind that likes him.


One last point I said Opposites attract so usually the nerdy church girl is looking for the unchurched guy not someone like her.

It’s always got to be the guys fault so when she’s praying for repentance for sucking dikk It can’t be because she’s a closet freak it has to be because the devil tempted her.