I didn't have a dad. I was raised by 5 BW.

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Naw. I'm complicated and I think most of you aren't intelligent enough to understand anything about me. No offense, I'm different B, on citas. There are many me's. I can be whatever I need to be to get what I want. But the real me is something you can understand unless as you're sensitive as me. And most people aren't willing to be that vulnerable because it's scary.
:hubie:Most people are just fukking with you ... why are you mad ... it's just jokes .... :manny:
 

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I don't play games with men..neither should you, my friend. Since we're all grown men we should be able to entreat each other with respect with such topics..I read the entire thread but I wanted to see if you would bare patience and simply answer to condense all points.

Now you approach me half assed and confused.. to point a question that I first asked you and bring it back to me unanswered. I have all I need to make assessment of you and the thread.
Socratic questioning (or Socratic maieutics)[1] is disciplined questioning that can be used to pursue thought in many directions and for many purposes.

Checkmate.

Lol we're not friends. I don't know you. you dap posts that insult me and expect me to actually take you seriously. lol then you imply we're friends and peers. lmao, naw stranger. I ain't answering your question until you answer mine. If you read the thread as you claim you have you'd have the answer you seek grasshopper.
 
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:hubie:Most people are just fukking with you ... why are you mad ... it's just jokes .... :manny:
I'm not mad at all. I'm actually meditating and praying before work. I'm getting ready to run a couple miles and practice my craft. I'm in a very nice place.
 

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Lol ding you win the thread. That's what I am! Not that corny shyt either. I write dark shyt and really funny shyt. I've always been a poet since I learned to read. I see words as puzzle pieces I try to put them together in creative ways, which is why I'm verbose and not concise. I still remember my first published poem. it was called the unamerican dream. That turned into an essay that got me into UC Berkeley's writing program. Which got me into Cal.
this nikka reminds me of art barr but just more clearer :ohhh:
 

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I think that a lot of AAs refer to the people that you are mentioning as cousins. We call them cousins even when they are not our real cousins.

I mean the kids of the people i called aunt and uncle i refer to as cousin when we were growing up. I will say at least with my fam the aunt and uncle title also is associated with age too. Like a really old women is your "old ma" more so than your aunt, primarily because that women may be like an aunt or mother to your parents.
 

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If all these men in your life and around these women were dropping the ball, these women's choice in men needs to be evaluated. Faulting most or all men for the poor choices these women made in a partner is completely false.
 

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How can these women raise you into something they don't have? How can they raise you into an honorable man when the men they choose are "dropping the ball" as you say?

shyt ain't adding up.
 

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Most of us are raised by single mothers and our culture is very masculine..You don't necessarily need a father figure in your life to not become a fakkit..but it would help our society alot if there were more nuclear families.
Hyper-masculinity and masculinity aren't the same things. Bravado, arrogance, a "look at me and what I got" attitude is not masculine.
 

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I try to tell people, they don't realize BW are in a better position than black men because they graduate college at a higher clip. They get good jobs with long term benefits. They think long term. I was lucky enough to be raised by 5 college educated BW. I feel bad for any man who hasn't been exposed to a strong female role model.
If you think black men don't think long term you are delusional. Many of them just don't perceive college an incentive enough to go and incur debt. Ask how many of those women are truly secure with car payments, rent, mortgage payments, and student loan debt?
 

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Nope. You're a racist. The intelligent response would be this: @Still Ill FC why didn't your mom get married?

I'd politely explain to you my mom is a boss, she owned businesses and had a job most of her life. She never needed a man for anything so she never kept them around. She loves kids though. She adopted two boys and raised them on her own. (BW showing they're strong and nurturing again, by choosing to adopt and raise two boys on their own.)

My brother isn't my biological brother. But we were raised as brothers. That's my big bro till the casket drops. I will take care of him for as long as he's alive because that's my big brother.

When I people jumped me he was in their swinging with me. He never let nobody lay a hand on me. Same thing with him.

We don't look alike and we share no genes but he's been more or a brother to me than any black men I've ever encountered. We have the same mom and last name. We grew up in the same house since preschool.

You wanted to shyt on BW so bad you spun my life story into a lie. Wow, you vote for Trump?
This is the exact mentality that a lot of women have that drive men away. All that "I don't need a man" bullshyt is just that. It's funny how you say she doesn't need a man, but all the men in these women's lives dropped the ball as you said. So why were there men around if they had no use nor need for them?
 

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You and this dude are sus to me. And the five men who dapped the post about sucking dikk are looking real funny in the light. Lmao you injected the man on man dikk sucking into this conversation. You guys started talking about gay shyt. My post had nothing with sexuality at all. That's where your mind went.

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breh, you yourself said you were raised by 5 women with no father figure. off the rip its hard enough for me to shed Andre Lyon imagery and parallels :yeshrug:

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