I swear I only see shyt like this on the internet. Nobody I know gives a shyt about this "swirl" shyt y'all keep harping about.
I live in NYC and thats pretty much the swirl capital of the US.
I see bw/wm couples all the time.
Same with Pittsburgh (where I'm originally from and where I'm at now visiting family for the month).
But I don' even care...IR in general make up such a small percentage.
I just think the tutorials, books, movies, articles, t-shirts, websites, and everything else that (some) BW dedicate to swirling is pathetic and reeks of low self esteem.
Considering white people stay with their own and aren't really feeling us like that.