I Dont Get These Hedonism People

[threattonature]

Yo, I have a real problem with the ladies who don’t understand wtf is going on.


If you want to have casual sex, do you, but getting mad because men aren’t doing any “after care” after you already gave them what they want is…borderline r*tarded.


People literally aren’t having real convos about sex with their daughters so these women get out into the world give their bodies away for some fun and don’t understand why dudes act completely different after sex.


I mean she’s older and she gets it which is why she told the men she didn’t actually want sex, but her even being surprised that the men didn’t want to deal with her after that.


I can’t blame the young women if no one actually talked to them about this shyt, they have to learn thru bad experiences. But literally “sleeping with multiple men” and “crying because of the treatment afterwards”

Why would a man be obligated to do “after care” after he got what he wanted???

If he didn’t show any emotion or care to get access to your body, why would he offer that after??? CRITICAL THINKING

I had this talk with a close female friend of mine. She was going on and on about the typical "guys are all dogs" talk and how guys just keep using her for sex. I was explaining to her that dudes just after some p*ssy will usually give themselves away some how and that she needs to take more time vetting guys before sleeping with them.

She even admitted how dudes would talk all sexually early on and she would return it. I ask her why she didn't cut dudes off and she said "if I don't talk about sex then no guys will talk to me". The saddest shyt I had heard especially since she likes to pretend like she's so confident but the reality is she only sees herself as a cum dumpster hoping that a guy eventually sticks around after.

 

[Gloxina]

I had this talk with a close female friend of mine. She was going on and on about the typical "guys are all dogs" talk and how guys just keep using her for sex. I was explaining to her that dudes just after some p*ssy will usually give themselves away some how and that she needs to take more time vetting guys before sleeping with them.

She even admitted how dudes would talk all sexually early on and she would return it. I ask her why she didn't cut dudes off and she said "if I don't talk about sex then no guys will talk to me". The saddest shyt I had heard especially since she likes to pretend like she's so confident but the reality is she only sees herself as a cum dumpster hoping that a guy eventually sticks around after.

This is the shyt I’m talking about!!!

They think any kinda male attention is better than being single, or waiting for a man to prove he has good intentions.


“If I don’t do it he’ll get it from someone else.”
Girl YES, that’s the point! Let some other chick spread her legs for a man who isn’t showing her real affection and care.

 

[threattonature]

Only time you can see actual beautiful or attractive women in a purely( but controlled) sexual environment:

In the Porn industry ( they’re handsomely paid to publicly perform sex acts on camera)
In wild Sex Orgies with wealthy, powerful, influential and famous men
Music industry/Hollywood Casting couch situations

Why? Because incentives matter. They only use sex if they can get something they want. will trade sex for money/fame/clout porn gives them money and casting couch/sex orgies with powerful and rich men allows them to get money/fame and get closer to men with clout and money.



Otherwise you won’t see them in events like hedonism in Jamaica or swinger parties. Ugly, old and fat women have to give up their borrows for free if they want to get attention, legit, young, healthy and attractive baddies dont even have to do it. They get attention and validation from men without doing anything . They can afford to be picky and they can wait for better opportunities/men/ etc

Ugly/fat/old women have no leverage with men whatsoever and they have no opportunity to use their natural hypergamous instincts. They have to work hard for what they have and they have to settle for what they can get

I disagree with the bolded. Some of these women got images to uphold and a public perception to maintain. Some of them are wild as hell and would hit the sex parties as an easy way to satisfy their freaky ass urges. It reminds me of in college and high school where some of the most prim and proper cute females would act all innocent and like they aren't about fukking. In high school the women were running to the barracks getting smutted all the way out, some by multiple dudes. In college they would roll 45 minutes to a close HBCU wilding out.

I've dated two women that frequented sex clubs. One started going with her ex on some exhibitionist shyt but that soon turned into swapping and eventually they broke up and she started rolling on her own. She was cute but bad bodied. Then another ex just went to fukk and she was fine as hell. Her reason for going was that dealing with regular dudes day to day can lead to stalking or abuse. So she preferred hitting sex clubs so she could get her dikk and never see the people again until the next get together.

 

[Uitomy]

I'm sorry, maybe i'm just a shallow POS cause ain't no way I could layup with a woman looking like this.

Damn this bytch shaped like BAS clay face

 

[Lord_nikon]

ayeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

 

[Gloxina]

You are resoundingly wrong. There are levels to it. The higher the level, the higher the barrier of entry. I’ve had my share of the most beautiful and professional women taking dudes and women down!

Women, no matter what they look like, are more fluid sexuality. Check out VIPBLISS.com and that is just one avenue.

There are circles where unattractive people can’t even get in.

Good looking people like to be around other good looking people.

This is very true, but the stuff you’re talking about is only accessed by really attractive and/or very successful people.

The average person who is into this shyt will NEVER walk into an event seeing a Lori Harvey doppelgänger, successful entrepreneurs or high level officials, etc.


That’s why I always say on here: anonymity is key. Anonymity and discretion.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

This is very true, but the stuff you’re talking about is only accessed by really attractive and/or very successful people.

The average person who is into this shyt will NEVER walk into an event seeing a Lori Harvey doppelgänger, successful entrepreneurs or high level officials, etc.


That’s why I always say on here: anonymity is key. Anonymity and discretion.

Doesn’t pay to be average. I guess I’m just fortunate and blessed. Lol

 

[yardman]

Yeah I still remember that wrinkly old CAC home looked like a light skinned scandal bag

A scandal bag is a black plastic bag​

You Jamaican?​

 

[Gloxina]

Doesn’t pay to be average. I guess I’m just fortunate and blessed. Lol

 

[Wiseborn]

You Jamaican?​

nope but born in Crown Heights.